I wouldn't want to share my wife with another man. But, I guess if you haven't kept yourself pure, you don't have much right to expect a one-man woman.
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I wouldn't want to share my wife with another man. But, I guess if you haven't kept yourself pure, you don't have much right to expect a one-man woman.
Hosea and Gomer (the prophet and the prostitute)
I don't think it works like that. I think worldly guys sometimes choose to marry virgins for that very reason. At least several I know have. Its the virgin guys who tend to fall in love with the first girl who gives them sex.
lol! This post does not make a lick of sense. Isn't every man a virgin at one time in his life? And expecting your mate to be pure while knowing that you are not is just a little on the selfish side. Don't you think?
It doesn't say the consequences of the action are gone. If someone with AIDS gets married guess what. So it is with their experiences and how those experiences colour their perspective on a great many things. ie sex and love. Virgins lack experience in those areas; hence, I won't be competing against the past. Even if you say the past is washed away with Christians I think most of us realize the reality of the situation. What we do affects us.
My friend says emotions are fleeting. He tells me he loves different women all the time and he tells them he loves them. I've called him out on it and he says that when he tells them he loves them he means it with all his heart and soul. How long that feeling lasts though is as varied as the women he finds himself in love with.
I suspect its like a drug addict refusing to marry another drug addicts. Now why would they do a thing like that? Muchas problemas, thats why.
The key then is to avoid such relationships that are doomed to fail. Are there any Bible marriages where the man or woman was promiscuous prior to marriage?
It seems like the choices we make determine what kind of person we are. Is marrying a woman who isn't a virgin a bad idea?
Is it a bad idea to marry a woman who is not a virgin?
All very good questions; the answers should be quite interesting.So I'm going to answer that question with questions.
What is every prostitute in the world got saved. Do they have the right to marry? To have a loving and fulfilling relationship?
What is every rape victim got saved, they arn't virgins and not by choice? Is it a bad idea to marry them?
What if every woman who had sex before she knew it was wrong got saved? Wouldn't they want to marry, to have a family?
What if we all walked around with our sins tattooed on our foreheads?
What about men who arn't virgins?
I suspect its like a drug addict refusing to marry another drug addicts. Now why would they do a thing like that? Muchas problems, that's why.
No, it's not the same at all. If you want real advise, I suggest that you grow up immensely before you even consider marriage. If not your marriage is doomed to fail before it even begins.
I wouldn't exactly call that a "successful" marriage. The entire prophecy is based on her continued unfaithfulness to Hosea and the difficulty of loving her through it.
Yes, if you happen to marry a prostitute, you're still expected to love her unconditionally; but the better course is not to marry her at all.