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Is Heaven a Utopia?

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I agree that He didn't need us. He is perfect love within the Trinity. But He did create us because He loves us so!

Well, we are not alone up there, of course. There are also other humans and angels. :)

Ah, this is interesting on the incarnate. Well, the thing is that when we are resurrected when He returns, our souls and bodies reunited, they are transformed into a glorified state, which is what Christ's resurrected Body was. So, the glorified body is not the same as the fleshly body we're in now. Why? Because Christ walked through locked doors, through walls in his resurrected Body, but at the same time, ate fish on the beach. It is quite intriquing. :) So, this is the difference.

But the problem remains as to the general idea of whether this is good for everyone or just good for those who fit into the ideal of people loving Jesus. It seems like the latter, since if general Orthodox teaching is the notion of hell and heaven being states of being before God, then hell and heaven are on a similar plane of this supposed "utopia" before God.




I see. I can understand that actually. I can see your POV. It really comes down to one knowing and experiencing God and through the small instances of these joyous experiences, we are drawn to want to be in His presence for eternity. We are limited at this time to feel His presence for more than a few minutes because, as I've read from many who have felt His presence and from the Saints, that they could not take in more than those few minutes they had at a time. I know, hard to get into and explain now. ^_^
Numinous, ineffable, mystical, those words come to mind.


I really don't know. :)
It was actually a bit of a rhetorical question, since it seems to follow logically that we can't keep improving forever if we're limited to one area of concern. As opposed to many areas of concern. If I had all the time in the world, I could become a great swordsman or martial artist, I could become a great author, I could become a scholar. But I only have a limited life, and that makes the challenge all the more appealing.
 
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Good point! Now how can you factor in the idea that human thoughts are not God's thoughts, nor are our ways His ways? Is your dread based on human limitation?
Any perspective is based on human limitations, but limitations aren't a bad thing by practical necessity. If we don't feel pain, we don't know what threatens us, if we don't know fear, we don't have the capacity to push past it, if we don't know disease, we'd have no reason to research the body's immune systems. And so on and so forth. I have no desire to experience eternity in any real capacity, because it would slowly drive me insane.


1 John 3:2 Beloved, now are we the sons of God, and it doth not yet appear what we shall be: but we know that, when he shall appear, we shall be like him; for we shall see him as he is."

I see yet another paradox, that while Jesus is still human (or is this currently incorrect in some way?) and we will be instantly perfected, Dorothea speaks confidently of growth past that. This does not strike me as contradictory, but does seem hard up against the edge of what we can speak about

While Jesus is both human and God in some sense. Perfection in terms of spiritual or physical capacity is one thing, but perfection in our abilities might be distinct from that. Though it all boils down to what you understand perfection to be, which would be a topic in Philosophy subforum, no doubt.
 
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But the problem remains as to the general idea of whether this is good for everyone or just good for those who fit into the ideal of people loving Jesus. It seems like the latter

Clearly, this is only experienced as good by those who learn to love what God loves, and to Love God Himself.

it seems to follow logically that we can't keep improving forever if we're limited to one area of concern.

So it is time to point out that Scripture tells us plainly we will not be limited to one concern. I happen to be of the opinion that worship will be the highest cause, and also feel this is Scripturally supported, but I will readily relegate that to the realm of opinion.
 
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I have no desire to experience eternity in any real capacity, because it would slowly drive me insane.

So my hunch was right - your dread IS based on human limitation! Stuck within such limitations, we have no reason to think we would endure eternity.
 
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Clearly, this is only experienced as good by those who learn to love what God loves, and to Love God Himself.
More subjectivity that renders it purely open to opinion, it would seem.



So it is time to point out that Scripture tells us plainly we will not be limited to one concern. I happen to be of the opinion that worship will be the highest cause, and also feel this is Scripturally supported, but I will readily relegate that to the realm of opinion

So you'd be able to do other normal things, or is that just opinion? I'm reminded of the notion in a Christian song that in God's "house" (Heaven?) you can play football and such. Just strikes me as silly on its face
 
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So my hunch was right - your dread IS based on human limitation! Stuck within such limitations, we have no reason to think we would endure eternity.

Fear is not a bad thing, nor are limitations. There is such a thing as unrealistic ideas of transcending human limitations. Sometimes we can do it, but it is not a common occurrence. Most humans are ordinary for the most part.
 
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Then how would you suggest we determine some relatively objective standard for personal fulfillment?
I can tell you how best not to define it.

What if I don't see any real meaning to believing in God to work towards goals or help people? What does it indicate in terms of the standard of personal fulfillment?
Absolutely nothing, if one wishes to close his mind of to any perceived dislike. "we" in a western society have been taught from an early age to not dismiss or turn your nose up at something as trivial as strange food, unless you have tried at least once. I find it hard to believe the exploring a culture or philosophy different than the one you find the most comfort in is acceptable.

As a religious studies major, it's not as if I haven't tried to understand the perspectives of a believer in God and Jesus, but I honestly cannot say I see any reason to pursue anything regarding their spiritual practices, especially as related to communion with God, since, imho, it distracts from an already complex spiritual/psychological/experiential/phenomenological world we live in.
Perhaps that is the problem. you are looking at the behavior of the relationship rather than focusing on experience the relationship for yourself.

Let's say to took an objective look at the courting practices of the typical couple from first date to marriage and you recorded all of the "events" that took place. from the first contact, first dinner, to the kiss and so on and so fourth till marriage. Now if you could catalog all of these events and place them in the specific order they happened, would you have an instruction manual on how to marry a woman? any woman?

i actually tried this for a while i was awesome for about the first 5 dates i told the same stories went to the same restraint and gaged my progress of the date on the story I was on and the timing of when the food came out.

It was great until the formality part of the relationship was over and I was forced to move into developing an individual connection with that particular person. Long story short it did not work because relationships do not work according to formulas.

Like wise if one only approached God with that list you typed out in your quote, I seriously doubt you will find anything more than what you listed.
So we have that distinction settled?
as far as I know?

Admittedly one Muslim does not speak for all Muslims or Islam, no more than you speak for all Christians. You might not believe as other Christians seem to that the soul will only gain eternal life through God and otherwise will be annihilated, as in annihilationism as I understand it.
Yes this is true but we all still believe in one God. and we all have a basic understanding of Heaven and Hell. Like wise Muslims have a similar accord when the terms of their afterlife is upon them. Trying to dismiss the commonalities shared by the members of the same faith does not jive, simply because all aspects of all other doctrines are not the same in a given faith.

In this case I can strongly argue that One signal life long devoted Muslim would give an accurate representation of a picture of an after life that I would say more than 95% of the people in that faith would agree with. (Generally speaking) I say that because that is what we were indeed speaking about, and not annihilationism.

There are different understandings of Paradise apart from Eden, however. I imagine we could agree on that. Eden is merely one popularized understanding of paradise as a concept, similar to utopia realized in various different theories and models.
When I mention Paradise I mean to say the Muslim version of Heaven. Eden was a paradise (Small "p") but Not a final destination "P" Paradise. (as in what Muslims believe)

Do you mean what was said in scripture about Heaven?
yes.

A communal effort, not a perfect communal effort. Humans don't think that they'll necessarily succeed in these endeavors, they hope and believe they will. It's where we get the notion of idealism, seems to me. Man's well being and welfare are sustained ideally, not actually. The difficulty with Utopia by human affairs is that we cannot predict that far. It seems to me a comparison of some idea of utopia as a good world might be justified IF it is managed by God. Considering God knows human welfare and what is good for humans better than humans, correct?
Yes

I want no utopia, since it is idealistic and unrealistic. If you admit you want a theocratic utopia, then we have to clarify what this theocratic utopia consists in. The secular utopia is something we can both critique, though for drastically different reasons, I imagine. But that you want the theocratic utopia, while I want neither a theocratic nor secular utopia is something we have just discovered now, it seems. A great progress!
If you are man and man's idea of utopia is basically whatever you will it to be... How is your particular version of it new? You may have discovered a new ball field but we are all still in the same park.

So in your utopia, men's needs are served by being servants to God?Is that a fair assessment?
Yes/no God will provide, and we will be that provision. (Heavenly Jobs)



Then our discussion has concluded or at least clarified that utopia at its basis only meets humans' needs, but not necessarily in a form that involves servitude or anything as selfish and elitist as what might be implied.
Not needs, wants and desires.

So in the full context, you argue that this is primarily about heaven? What about the interpretation I recall more clearly about the parable's focus on forgiveness in a general interpersonal context?
Same story two parts. One can not be Restored If He does not repent. First half of the story outlines the devastating nature of the sin, and how complete it was, then the son hits bottom and decides to repent and return to the father because he has nothing else.

The second half reassures that the Father does not hold a grudge and enslaves his own son, as the son thought to be his only option. Infact the Father restores the lost son back to a position of honor and authority (as if he never left.) In His Father's House. Which is another way of describing Heaven.

Just to clarify the Christian context of the roles in that context?
I am not sure what you are clarifying. If a person asks a question concerning xyz, I use stories or references 123 to explain the principle. If 123 does not work I go on to abc. Your "faith" has little to do with how you receive your answer. as i said before your answer is determined on what you are asking, and how you are doing so.

But my argument is that there is some focus on one's needs, though you haven't disagreed our needs are met, but moreso that it isn't the human perception of what our needs are, but God's perception. Is that a better understanding?
We need to make the distinction between needs and want/desire. Utopian beliefs all center around want/desire for man's general prosperity

Heaven beliefs center around a relationship with God, and does not focus on the secular things man wants. (This is illustrated by the streets of Gold and pearly gates. as in that day you built streets and gates out of common materials, not things of tremendous value.) His needs are filled yes, but the purpose of Heaven is not to fill the secular want or desire of Man.


In that Heaven is seen as synonymous with God in providing for our needs in some mistaken way?
Somewhat. yes. Your across the board interchanging of want and desire with need muddles the definitions you have given.

God Meets our needs through our service to Him. Our wants and desires will be of God. To those wants, we will have our fill through our personal relationship with God.

In Utopia All wants and desires center around mans secular want and desire. this may include but is not limited to his personal need.
 
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I can tell you how best not to define it.

Tis a start, like via negativa.

Absolutely nothing, if one wishes to close his mind of to any perceived dislike. "we" in a western society have been taught from an early age to not dismiss or turn your nose up at something as trivial as strange food, unless you have tried at least once. I find it hard to believe the exploring a culture or philosophy different than the one you find the most comfort in is acceptable.
You think I haven't explored Christianity just because I haven't tried to genuinely believe in Jesus? I know the basics of your religion, but I simply cannot bring myself to violate my integrity and just try to believe in Jesus as savior and Christ without compelling reasons.
Perhaps that is the problem. you are looking at the behavior of the relationship rather than focusing on experience the relationship for yourself.

Let's say to took an objective look at the courting practices of the typical couple from first date to marriage and you recorded all of the "events" that took place. from the first contact, first dinner, to the kiss and so on and so fourth till marriage. Now if you could catalog all of these events and place them in the specific order they happened, would you have an instruction manual on how to marry a woman? any woman?

i actually tried this for a while i was awesome for about the first 5 dates i told the same stories went to the same restraint and gaged my progress of the date on the story I was on and the timing of when the food came out.

It was great until the formality part of the relationship was over and I was forced to move into developing an individual connection with that particular person. Long story short it did not work because relationships do not work according to formulas.

Like wise if one only approached God with that list you typed out in your quote, I seriously doubt you will find anything more than what you listed.
I don't have any compelling reasons from my insights into Christianity to see it as anything more than a piece of a larger puzzle that Buddhism seems to fill in more, though not completely, since any system doesn't completely solve all the problems with cut and dry answers.

You can't suggest that being a religious studies major means I try to scientifically analyze religion in some formulaic manner. That's ridiculous. There are theoretical aspects to it, but it's more along the lines of social sciences. Or, dare I say, philosophy. There are rules, but it's not as cut and dry as the methodology that could be argued to exist in scientific pursuits.

Yes this is true but we all still believe in one God. and we all have a basic understanding of Heaven and Hell. Like wise Muslims have a similar accord when the terms of their afterlife is upon them. Trying to dismiss the commonalities shared by the members of the same faith does not jive, simply because all aspects of all other doctrines are not the same in a given faith.

In this case I can strongly argue that One signal life long devoted Muslim would give an accurate representation of a picture of an after life that I would say more than 95% of the people in that faith would agree with. (Generally speaking) I say that because that is what we were indeed speaking about, and not annihilationism.


Again, lay Muslims do not necessarily represent Islam except in the same loose sense lay Christians represent Christianity. There is a need to study each of them deeper to try to see whether they actually teach what a pastor or imam would teach in some general ministerial duty as opposed to them simply parroting the common status quo explanation for the common people so they don't have to think too hard.

When I mention Paradise I mean to say the Muslim version of Heaven. Eden was a paradise (Small "p") but Not a final destination "P" Paradise. (as in what Muslims believe)

But who's to say precisely that those rewards aren't simply what devoted servants of Allah deserve? Admittedly it conflicts with Christianity in some sense with the tendency to be a bit averse to very sensual temptations, so to speak. But Islam isn't necessarily saying those virgins aren't going to be married to you in Heaven in some sense, though I've never completely understood what was exactly implied what was to be done with those virgins. It doesn't have to be sex, strictly speaking





Glad we got that settled, I suppose



If you are man and man's idea of utopia is basically whatever you will it to be... How is your particular version of it new? You may have discovered a new ball field but we are all still in the same park.
You misunderstand. I don't want any utopia. I never said I had some better idea of utopia. Don't put words in my mouth I didn't even imply by my speech. I rejected both, I didn't say that I therefore had some better version. Utopia is too subjective and idealistic for me.


Yes/no God will provide, and we will be that provision. (Heavenly Jobs)
We are the means and God is the end, hm?


Not needs, wants and desires.
Utopia in the popular understanding focuses on wants and desires? And your "Correct" understanding focuses on needs? Am I accurate in this distinction?


Same story two parts. One can not be Restored If He does not repent. First half of the story outlines the devastating nature of the sin, and how complete it was, then the son hits bottom and decides to repent and return to the father because he has nothing else.

The second half reassures that the Father does not hold a grudge and enslaves his own son, as the son thought to be his only option. Infact the Father restores the lost son back to a position of honor and authority (as if he never left.) In His Father's House. Which is another way of describing Heaven.
Like I said, this focuses on man's relationship with God as opposed to what I seemed to understand which is a good sort of common explanation of forgiveness being something valuable in human relationships. Of course, this presumes that Jesus might have unintentionally communicated a parable that can be used in a nontheistic context for similar but also detracting ends from the theistic use.

I am not sure what you are clarifying. If a person asks a question concerning xyz, I use stories or references 123 to explain the principle. If 123 does not work I go on to abc. Your "faith" has little to do with how you receive your answer. as i said before your answer is determined on what you are asking, and how you are doing so.
I meant that you were qualifying the Christian answer to the question about Heaven

We need to make the distinction between needs and want/desire. Utopian beliefs all center around want/desire for man's general prosperity

Heaven beliefs center around a relationship with God, and does not focus on the secular things man wants. (This is illustrated by the streets of Gold and pearly gates. as in that day you built streets and gates out of common materials, not things of tremendous value.) His needs are filled yes, but the purpose of Heaven is not to fill the secular want or desire of Man.
Are you sure EVERY utopia focuses solely on wants/desires instead of trying to reconcile both? It wouldn't be unheard of. If we take a commune, it's both your wants and needs put together in a group that is able to improve your acquisition of both fulfillment and pleasure, so to speak. This is speculative, I admit, but I'm not sure if either of us are THAT familiar with utopian literature and theory.

The other reason I see that the wants and desires could be argued to be irrelevant in heaven is that you wouldn't have them anymore, since you'd have a perfected body. Am I correct?


Somewhat. yes. Your across the board interchanging of want and desire with need muddles the definitions you have given.

God Meets our needs through our service to Him. Our wants and desires will be of God. To those wants, we will have our fill through our personal relationship with God.
Are you sure I'mconfusing them? I'm well aware of the distinction even in a Christian context, but I'm not accusing you of saying that Heaven fulfills our wants/desires as opposed to our needs. I know Christianity's focus is at least not that hedonistic.


In Utopia All wants and desires center around mans secular want and desire. this may include but is not limited to his personal need.
But personal need is not the same as want and desire; you already distinguished that. Just because I need food, water, shelter and a sense of fulfillment for example, does not mean they are wants/desires on a secular level. Pleasure and stimulation of a sexual nature might be said to be strictly wants/desires, at least not when "properly" channelled in a marital committment, lol.
 
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More subjectivity that renders it purely open to opinion, it would seem.

How so? Good and evil seem to be pretty constant themes, throughout the history of our species.

So you'd be able to do other normal things, or is that just opinion? I'm reminded of the notion in a Christian song that in God's "house" (Heaven?) you can play football and such. Just strikes me as silly on its face

We aren't told much about any "normal" things. I've heard that football song. I agree it's silly, but who wrote it probably feels about football as you might about philosophy, so you could easily adapt the notion ...
 
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How so? Good and evil seem to be pretty constant themes, throughout the history of our species.
Depends on if you mean good or right and whether you mean evil, bad or wrong. I don't think self defense is wrong, but I do think it is bad. There isn't necessarily a contradiction between holding to degrees and distinctions of general "goodness" and "badness"


We aren't told much about any "normal" things. I've heard that football song. I agree it's silly, but who wrote it probably feels about football as you might about philosophy, so you could easily adapt the notion ..
Except philosophy makes one think, football can affect that area, from what I understand, especially at a higher level when we have brain injuries. I never really appreciated sports without some philosophical or spiritual aspect to them, which is why Tai Chi and Wado Ryu Karate are my main sports, along with some general Kendo/jutsu practice I do on my own.
 
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But the problem remains as to the general idea of whether this is good for everyone or just good for those who fit into the ideal of people loving Jesus. It seems like the latter, since if general Orthodox teaching is the notion of hell and heaven being states of being before God, then hell and heaven are on a similar plane of this supposed "utopia" before God.
It's good for anyone who loves Him and for those who never knew Him but lived righteous lives. :) It's through our free will what we choose in life and how we choose to live our lives.

Numinous, ineffable, mystical, those words come to mind.
Well, the last two words, especially the last one, are quite commonly used in Orthodox spirituality.


It was actually a bit of a rhetorical question, since it seems to follow logically that we can't keep improving forever if we're limited to one area of concern. As opposed to many areas of concern. If I had all the time in the world, I could become a great swordsman or martial artist, I could become a great author, I could become a scholar. But I only have a limited life, and that makes the challenge all the more appealing.
Yes, and I think there is a point when one is at that most spiritually mature age. And yes, it doesn't usually happen in this life, but takes even the period after leaving the earth and continuing on. When and how long depends on what the person did in his/her life on earth. I hope I'm making sense here.
 
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It's good for anyone who loves Him and for those who never knew Him but lived righteous lives. :) It's through our free will what we choose in life and how we choose to live our lives.
But how would one determine at all whether someone's lived a righteous life if they didn't believe in God or God derived ethics?


Well, the last two words, especially the last one, are quite commonly used in Orthodox spirituality.

Numinous was used by Rudolf Otto, so I suppose that's a bit more academic sounding.

Yes, and I think there is a point when one is at that most spiritually mature age. And yes, it doesn't usually happen in this life, but takes even the period after leaving the earth and continuing on. When and how long depends on what the person did in his/her life on earth. I hope I'm making sense here.
Sounds as if it's a kind of purgatory in that people have to be slowly oriented towards God, except it's in heaven, so it's as if everyone goes along at their own pace, which sounds ideal in words. But one has to wonder why everyone can't simply go back to dust as the scriptures have said in at least one metaphorical instance? Twould seem to solve the problems much easier than the notion of eternal existence, which I still find unappealing.
 
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