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Is God Trying To Tell Me Something In My Dream?

BabyLee

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So I've been thinking a lot lately, about these dreams that I tend to have. Sometimes it's only once every few weeks and sometimes I'll dream of this several times a week. Before I tell you my dream I think I should tell you my backstory on this.

I was friends with this girl for 4 years. She was my absolute best friend and I loved her like I had never loved another friend before. We were so close, we were each other's everything. We did have fights, yes. And those fights were sometimes bad, but we always came back stronger because of them. Long story short, I met this other friend who then became friends with my best friend. During one of me and my best friends fights she came in and decided to lie about me to her. Fast forward several months later my best friend tells me she doesn't want me in her life because of everything this girl has said about me. Okay, fine, I was upset and cried for a long time but I got over it.

This is where the dreams begin. A few months after everything I begin having vivid dreams about my best friend, all of the scenarios were the same. Me and my best friend run into each other, we talk, and just like that we're friends again and I'm happy. This has been going on for about 5 months now.

I might be wrong but I really feel like God is calling me to talk to her again. I had always felt like I was put in her life to guide her to God, she had even told me that I make her want to be a better Christian. Maybe God wants me to try and talk to her again? It's been almost a year now since I've spoken to her, and I do miss her dearly, but if this isn't what God wants me to do then I don't want to be mislead. That's why I'm trying to figure out if God is trying to talk to me. Any answers would really be appreciated. Sorry for the long read. Thank you so much.
 

Ken Behrens

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If you can put aside the idea that you are supposed to guide her, and can be willing to approach her as an equal, then by all means contact her. Both of you have grown, and she probably misses you just as much as you miss her.
 
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Dreams can be a useful guide in our lives. I tend to have periods of lucid dreaming and then months without. I advise writing them down or dictating them as soon as you can for the messages contained can be more complicated than first seen and easily forgotten/overlooked. You might find an instant connection with a dream or it may prove pertinent in the future. For instance, I was recently prompted to a dream from when I was only 7/8 years of age, one were I was left hiding from wolves beyond my door and a demon outside my window.
Like anything in life, it's important to look for signs of warning and help and then have the courage to act upon them. Keeping a diary for all such observations is a good idea, which is a waning interest in today's modern world.
On this subject it is important to distinguish those dreams invoked by modern media (e.g. TV, games, VR) which are little more than a man-made manifestations of stimuli and those which are more abstract and novel of mind. Personally, I avoid too much TV based media and so my dreams tend to be more pure and helpful. I hope this helps you interpret your dreams in the future.

Remember: keep notes and keep sharing! Merry Christmas.

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