No. That is the fallacy creationists use to suppose lizards are more like dinosaurs than dinosaurs are like birds. What matters is not "how things look", but homologies, which often look quite different, but show common descent. Hence, birds and dinosaurs, which have scutes (specialized scales which can be induced to form feathers) specialized shoulder joints and pneumatized bones, are closely related, while bats and pterosaurs which "look alike", are not closely related to birds.
Turns out, birds are genetically more closely related to archosaurs than archosaurs (group including diosaurs, thecodonts, and crocodiles) are to other reptiles.
When it comes to DNA, crocodiles and birds flock together
Down near the roots of that avian tree lies a mysterious ancestor that was decidedly more terrestrial and terrifying than the finch or the wren.
The archosaur, or so-called "ruling reptile," roamed Earth about 250 million years ago, and "was something that was very reptilian, very early-dinosaur-ish, and then it evolved into modern-day crocodiles and birds," said David Haussler, Scientific Director of the UC Santa Cruz Genomics Institute, a coauthor of several studies that came out of the avian genomics effort.
"So it really is the proper dinosaur ancestor," Haussler said. "And birds and crocodiles are the proper descendants of this ancestor."
Haussler isn't a fossil-digging researcher. He digs through genetic code. So does John McCormack, an Occidental College biologist who usually is plenty busy curating a collection of some 65,000 Mexican birds at Moore Lab of Zoology on the college's Los Angeles campus.
But both researchers are keenly interested in a kind of living molecular fossil -- small strands of DNA, the code of life, that are shared among a wide array of species.
"These markers are very nice for doing comparative genomics, because they're so conserved. They're easy to find among organisms that are very distantly related," said McCormack. "We can find them across all of these genomes, and use them to build a phylogeny -- an evolutionary history."
http://www.latimes.com/science/sciencenow/la-sci-sn-crocodile-bird-genome-20141212-story.html
It's not just DNA. Not long ago, scientists found a bit of heme in a T-Rex bone. Heme is a fragment of the hemoglobin molecule. When tested, it was found to be more like the heme of birds than like the heme of other reptiles.
See above. DNA and conserved molecules are as good a means as homologies for finding common descent. Sometimes better. And DNA, as you see, shows that birds have a common descent with archosaurs.
Not surprisingly, when you find homologous traits, you find DNA relatedness as well.
"Looks alike" often won't do it, though. This is why the shoulder joint of raptoral dinosaurs, used for balance and grasping, is homologous to the avian shoulder joint, used for flight.
The motion is the same; it was just recruited for a new purpose. That is the way evolution works.