Hi,
As the name of the thread will indicate,
I am in the camp that sees remarriage as adultery. It seems that a wave of conservatism in this area is going through christendom, and I feel also that this is what lines up most closely to the scriptures, and to the emotional reality of myself. I am a very faithful person, maybe that goes with the introvert personality trait?
Anyway, my question is on, how is the situation for those who moved out of an adulterous marriage, and have not been married in a licit marriage.
1)
when remarriage is adultery (in the ongoing tense),
it would be so that the only solution will be remission of the sinful condition, therefore stopping the sinful relation (?). Some argue that an adulterous marriage is not a marriage in Gods eyes. I found some support for this in Malachi 2:14-16, where God explains about staying with the "wife of thy youth", which would be the same as "your first wife".
2)
after removing the sinful condition, an adulterous marriage, a person is divorced or single.
Is such a person able to marry, or does he have to stay celibate? Both sides can be found on the net.
-- celibate: it is good for a man not to touch a woman (1 Cor 7:1) and, in the discussion on marriage, Jesus mentioned those who make themselves eunuchs for the sake of the kingdom (matthew 19:8-12). So celibacy is encouraged, at least. Also, there is the general idea that a divorced person cannot remarry, does this idea extend to the person who has divorced from an adulterous marriage (which is suggested on some websites)?
-- marry: this is where until now I have seen only a void, no discussion on it. I saw it not in scripture, or in the writings of early christians. So where does it leave us? Hopefully there are some people on this forum, who meditate the same things.
p.s. this is not a thread to discuss the validity of the claim for remarriage being adultery when first spouse is still alive, if you want to do that, better to start your own thread. Please make your answer in either category 1 or 2 above. Thank you