The Bible tells people to humble themselves before God but it is only God that can humble someone and He does so by revealing who He is to that person. Those who are proudful remain judicially blinded.
What is the point? Calvinists believe people are born haters of God, and could never respond to the gospel apart from an Irresistible Grace.
God's will of command works towards His will of decree. The Gospel commands all people to repent and believe but it is only the elect that are granted this. The outward call goes to all but the inward call goes to the few God has chosen (Matt 20:16, 22:14).
Matthew 22:14: Did Jesus explain Matthew 22:14’s quote of “many are called, but few are chosen” in the sense that He has only picked certain people to
become believers? That is simply not what the text states. The “many” and “few” seems to echo the broad road to destruction vs. the narrow path to life, in terms of the few that find it. So, a simple meaning to Matthew 22:14 is that God calls everyone to salvation, but only chooses for salvation those who believe in Him, consistent with John 3:16. I find that to be a simple and consistent meaning of the Gospels, without inferring that God only wants certain people to become believers.
The reprobate have no true care for the Gospel and do not bother making their election and calling sure (2 Pet 1:10), examine themselves to see if they are in the faith (2 Cor 13:5) or work out their salvation with fear and trembling (Php 2:12). Only the elect are made willing to do these things.
2 Peter 1:10: Notice the order of the
calling and election. No Calvinist would agree that we are first called and then elected, or that being elected is in some way dependent on whether we answer the call. The order makes sense for non-Calvinists as God has elected to save those who believe on Christ (John 5:24).
2 Peter 1:10 Therefore, my brothers and sisters, make every effort to confirm your calling and election. For if you do these things, you will never stumble,
John 5:24 Very truly I tell you, whoever hears my word and believes him who sent me has eternal life and will not be judged but has crossed over from death to life.
2 Corinthians 13:5: does not support the practice of examining our faithfulness, perseverance, and good works to assure ourselves that we are saved, for how much obedience is enough to know with certainty that we are fully accepted by God? Assurance of salvation never comes from looking at our imperfect walk but at Christ’s finished work and the objective truth of the gospel. Salvation is sure only to those who have looked away from self and toward Jesus Christ by faith, believing He is the Son of God, who died for all our sins, rose from the dead, and promises eternal life to all who receive His salvation solely by grace. Notice in 2 Corinthians 1:21-24, Paul speaks to the Corinthians as though they have faith.
Philippians 2:12: "
Working out your salvation by fear and trembling:" indicates that we are (as in
Ephesians 6:13) to work out to completion what is begun. This is the function of man, as fellow-worker with God (1 Corinthians 3:9), first in his own soul, and then among his brethren. God is the “beginner and perfecter” of every “good work” (see
Philippians 1:6); man’s co-operation is secondary and intermediate.
Ephesians 6:13 Therefore put on the full armor of God, so that when the day of evil comes, you may be able to stand your ground, and after you have done everything, to stand.