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Irrational worries

Easyk

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I don't believe God has a plan for me. I think he made me, and put me here, but I don't believe he intervenes in my life. I believe he knows who I am, but only vaguely; the same way I know that I have an oak tree in my yard, but I don't know how many limbs it has or any details. I think God made me and put me here, but that's all. He is probably off tending to his other worlds, I bet he doesn't give Earth much thought.

Like heck, we are on the only planet in our universe that has life. God made it so, astro-physics affirms this. our star is the only one we can see that is actually stable. The Lord God knows every hair on your head.. the universe was created for His Glory, our world for His Glory.

Our universe has roughyl 2500 years of life left before all temp is the same everywhere.. our DNA structure is eroding and becoming more and more unstable each generation.. need i go on..

Our history is coming to a close, the signs are there and more and more of scripture is being forfilled. the bible is a book of hope, promises and love and every single prophercy has come true. and those yet unforfilled will be.

Gods mercy only lasts so long and then the end will come.. Russia is allinging more and more with the mid-east and soon they will attack Israel and Gods hand will stop them. We are in a moment of calm, the calm before the storm.. that calmness is about to end.. be ready and be sure God of the universe who knew you before the beginning of time has you in His hand and will never let you go.

Our faith is based on truth and the bible, one must beleive in Genesis or have no foundation for Jesus and the whole bible..
 
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anewday

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I feel this way too. I turned 30 last year. I've never been married and there are no prospects at this time. I have yet to find that dream job as well. I just try to look at what God has given me, and not the things and people I wish I had in my life.
 
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lovemydaisyrock

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I'm 35 have been single for about 11 years. I have a great desire to get married and have kids, but over time I have come to realise that although it may not happen, it's not the 'be all and end all' of a fruitful and happy life. Sure it gets boring hanging out by myself at home most weekends ( all close friends married and/or have kids ), but at the same time if I don't make an effort to invite people places or go to parties or weddings or church events, I will most likely not get married or have kids. No one is going to knock on my door and be 'the one' ( although a year or so ago that very thing happened, but I freaked out so much that I blew him off ! I have no thoughts that he was 'the one' anyway or God would've kicked my butt I'm sure ! )

I have a plan to do respite weekend care later this year and perhaps look at doing permenant foster care in a couple. In Australia, adoption is almost an impossibility but if things change here, I might do that if I haven't been married by 40ish.

While I have my lonely nights and my why doesn't anyone want to love me nights ( isn't it funny how it hits at night?! ) I generally love my life. It wasn't what I expected ( I expected to be married to my boyfriend of 10 years...well until he fell in love and married someone else ) but I am grateful I live in a country where I am free to worship Him, a steady job and family and friends who are only a facebook message, text or even a phone call away when it gets tough. :)
 
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unrealiseddreams

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just keep searching, going out and doing stuff.. your man is there.. you just have to seek him..

Does the woman have to seek the man? Or just try to put herself in situations where she might meet people ie not in her livingroom every day and night, and let her self be found, I dont know I just have been told so many times that the man does the pursuing the seeking.
 
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