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glo1

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Hi my name is Amber. I have been going to church most of my life off and on, but I was just recently saved. My husband for 3 and 1/2 years doesn't believe in Christ. He believes himself to be an intellectual who believes in evolution rather that creation. He thinks that Chrisianity is just another false religion. He cringes when I talk about God with the kids. We have a 3 year old and a 1 year old. He says that once they are older he will tell them the truth. That he won't have his boys thinking lies. I pray that he will find the Lord before he pulls our kids down with him. He is a wonderful man and great supporter. If only he could find God. I know that he could do mighty works in the Lord's name. That is why the enemy has such a strong hold on him.
Welcome, Amber!

You said something wonderful there, and I feel the same about my husband ... when he finally turns his heart to the Lord, God is going to be able to use all his skills and gifts for great things! :clap:

glo
 
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RachelRM

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Hello,
My name is Rachel. I have been saved for 11 yrs. but I married a man who I am not sure is saved. We have been together for 2 yrs. and married in April of 2007. Everytime I bring up the subject of God, he gives me a different answer. Sometimes he says that he is saved and he believes that Jesus died on the cross for our sins but other times he says that he believes that someone died on the cross. I don't think he knows what he believes. I think maybe he told me he was saved so that I would stay with him. He knows that I am a child of God and that I wanted to be with someone who was of the same belief as me. He will not go to church and says that the bible is not the true word of God because it was written by man. I have tried to tell him the truth of it all but he will not listen and gets defensive.
 
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pete56

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Rachel, if he doesn't know, then he is not saved!

I'm sorry to be so blunt, but I think yo already knew that!

Welcome to UY at Cf and feel free to share with us in the Check-in thread, and share as much or as little of your struggle as you feel able.

Between us we here at UY have a mountain of experience of all the twists and turns of this hard journey. You will need all the support you can find for this trip and we will be happy to be part of that for you!

Bless you Sister

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Hi!

My name is Tina and I am new to theese forums. I first came to know Christ when I was five (thirty-odd years ago). I spent many years serving God as a missionary and then became burnt out and apathetic. I married my husband during that time. He grew up in the Lutheran church, but at this time feels that God is irrelevant to his life. I have recently turned back to God and my husband is fairly supportive of that. We have two daughters, ages 3 and 5.
 
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rainbowpromises

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Hi!

My name is Tina and I am new to theese forums. I first came to know Christ when I was five (thirty-odd years ago). I spent many years serving God as a missionary and then became burnt out and apathetic. I married my husband during that time. He grew up in the Lutheran church, but at this time feels that God is irrelevant to his life. I have recently turned back to God and my husband is fairly supportive of that. We have two daughters, ages 3 and 5.

I am glad to hear your husband is supportive. I know I often give my husband an extra hug and word of encouragement because of how supportive he is.
Welcome Tina.


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pete56

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Hi Doulaforchrist

Welcome to UY. Traffic here tends to be rather slow as the regular contributors all migrated to another forum here during the turmoil of the changes to this forum last year.

So if you want to have regular fellowship with us you may find that forum more helpful.

Nevertheless there are a few of us that still check in here as you can see! Be blessed and be welcome to our group.

Pete
 
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