Married a little over 5 years and she had an affair. She had slapped me several times in the marriage. When i caught her cheating i lost it and for the first time i slapped her. I have really given it to God but it will be with me forever, I know that it was the biggest mistake of my life and i can not change what has happened. She says she has forgiven me for it and i have never even given it a second thought when she slapped me. She is now taking the kids from her first marriage to her new boyfriends house ever weekend, and is staying with him until monday... I have forgave her for what she is doing, but now that she is calling me, she seems to always want to know what i am doing and is always letting me know what i did and I"m not mentiong the affair sheis having and i would still love for my marriage to work i realize to read this you might think how bad it was but we really had a really good relationship over all. Will she ever really forgive me???
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There is alot of detail needed to help someone in your situation, and I'm not suggesting that you should spill your beans here. but if you want real help you need to both go and have a sit down with someone you both can respect as a moderator..If your not both on the same page when you try to reconcile it can turn disastrous quickly.
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