If you havent figured it out by now, it is by faith.( For followers and non-followers.)
The believer is to believe what is written, in faith.
The unbeliever believes what is told them, by faith.
My head hurts.
Look, it's not very hard to reconcile them. The Bible adapts. At the time it was wrote, a creation account in which God literally creates creation in 6 days and with his own hands is the only way to get a bunch of sheep-herders to understand.
But we're not sheep-herders. We can see the mechanisms and we can see that the secular account of the creation matches the stages of the Biblical one (the universe first, then stars, then the sun and moon and earth, the land forms on earth, the plants grown, followed by creatures, and then man being the last thing). We can reocncile the garden of eve as a metaphor of man's ascent to sentience and realization of the concepts of right and wrong and gaining a soul.
There doesn't have to be a controversy at all unless you want one.
The science holds up. The calculations for radiometric dating become more and more accurate. If the system of radiometric dating is wrong, then all of nuclear physics is wrong. Talk origins is a debunking site, but they already destroyed everything on those pathetic wikis and answering genesis sites and then some.
Have you ever stopped to think about the theological implications of God creating things to look really old? Such as the billion year old light rays? IF this was true, he could be destroying and rebuildling the universe every last thursday.
He'd be a prankster God, seeking to trick and decieve man. This can't be a God who claims to be truth, love and justice.