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im soo confused!!

danette

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ive been divorced almost 10 yrs...but my heart tells me he's still the one.... our relationship has improved emensely over the past several months...ive prayed about this....i promised god that if he opened a door id gladly walk thru it...how do i kno if the door has been opened....which is what im feeling or am i confusing it with something else....i just dont want to miss the boat...i want to do what God wants....how do i kno:help::cry::sigh:
 

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ive been divorced almost 10 yrs...but my heart tells me he's still the one.... our relationship has improved emensely over the past several months...ive prayed about this....i promised god that if he opened a door id gladly walk thru it...how do i kno if the door has been opened....which is what im feeling or am i confusing it with something else....i just dont want to miss the boat...i want to do what God wants....how do i kno:help::cry::sigh:
I understand. It is hard to say. Only you can know the signs. God will reveal them to you. Pray and ask Him. He will. Have you talked to you ex husband about it? You must be aware of the signs though. I dont know why you are divorced in the first place.

My wife wants to come back to me, but I watch the signs. I take my time and listen and discern. Right now, I would say for us, no way. All the signs say she is still the same as when she crushed me or tried to. It wasnt because of anything I had done if you are wondering. That is why I say watch all the signs.
God bless you and guide you
 
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