My husband and I are in the mist of a raging war it feels like for the past five years. The last two have been the hardest. We have only been married for 5 years. I beleive in marriage and what it stands for. I however need honestly and truth. I don't know if I want to fight for this anymore. My husband says he wants a fresh start. Im very hurt and very confused and to be quite honest with you, im tired of being lied to cheated on and verbaly abused. Yes I am a christian and I with my whole heart beleive in marriage. But Im affraid of allowing this to go on. I want to smile again and laugh and feel like I am loved. My kids need me to be there for them and right now I stink at being a mom. Please I need a fresh look at this and a heart to hear from the Lord. Im too confused right now. Please if anyone has any prayers or advise. I can sure use it.
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I am praying for you to have peace in the midst of the struggle.
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in my opinion if hes cheating hes not worthy of you and he is emotionally abusing you by doing so. being verbally abused is not healthy for you or your children because they two will eventually suffer for it and as for lying, there is no place for it in a healthy marriage. even though i am not a big fan of counceling i would think it may be worth pursuing but unless he is willing to get help and change you will continue living this way for years and years. sometimes the right thing, is the hardest thing to do. praying for you as you pray and think over what is best for you and your precious children. hugs.
i just want to add that and this is important to remember, nothing is impossible for god and if you love him(your husband) as i know you do, pray and lean on god and believe and he will give you the marriage you want. he will give you the desire of your heart,
i just want to add that and this is important to remember, nothing is impossible for god and if you love him(your husband) as i know you do, pray and lean on god and believe and he will give you the marriage you want. he will give you the desire of your heart,
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Lord Jesus, I ask and pray that you would intervene in this situation. Lord send this family wise counsel which includes knowledge and understanding of your divine will. Lead them according to your way in every endeavor. Remove the confusion dear Lord and blanket this family with your peace and healing. All for your glory Lord. Amen
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I will pray.. I understand completely what you are saying.. peace is good.. and I lived through all the same with my husband.. I got my joy and peace but our marriage is over.. 
you need so much energy to raise children alone and this sounds very hard.. GOD led me through it.. it is very hard.. but there is peace and joy ahead.. I would suggest counselling for you.. I thought it always had to be for both.. but I was able to be helped to see what it was doing to me and my family and find the strength to start a whole new life.. of course families should stay together.. but you cannot help anyone feeling so low and struggling.. if you cannot work on both together.. work on you and ask GOD for help to know how to go about this.. I will pray.. I am sorry for all your trials.. its very difficult going through this..
you need so much energy to raise children alone and this sounds very hard.. GOD led me through it.. it is very hard.. but there is peace and joy ahead.. I would suggest counselling for you.. I thought it always had to be for both.. but I was able to be helped to see what it was doing to me and my family and find the strength to start a whole new life.. of course families should stay together.. but you cannot help anyone feeling so low and struggling.. if you cannot work on both together.. work on you and ask GOD for help to know how to go about this.. I will pray.. I am sorry for all your trials.. its very difficult going through this..
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20grace11, I am in the same position as you, or at least a lot of similiarities. And no, of course you are not "nuts". Why would you even need to defend yourself? Oh, I forgot, you constantly have someone degrading you.
It is not God's will for you to live like this. It is not God's will for me to live like this. For 7 years I have asked God to intervene, but my husband only gets more sly and more devious ways of attacking me. I am praying that he will lose interest in me and go on his way. And you know what? God is listening.
I have my kids to think of. They have been hurt by my husband to the nth degree. Especially my daughter, who is not his.
My heart goes out to you, and I will pray for you right now, as I end this note.
"Dear Father, I pray for this woman, who is precious, priceless, and dear to Your heart. I lift her up to you and ask You to heal her heart and to give her life, peace, joy, success, and the wonderful love between her and her children that is Your great desire. I pray that whatever is your will would be done in her life, concerning her husband, whether it is counseling or any other life-happenings. I pray that you would BLESS my sister from the bottom of her feet to the top of her head for the rest of her life starting right now in JESUS' name, Amen.
It is not God's will for you to live like this. It is not God's will for me to live like this. For 7 years I have asked God to intervene, but my husband only gets more sly and more devious ways of attacking me. I am praying that he will lose interest in me and go on his way. And you know what? God is listening.
I have my kids to think of. They have been hurt by my husband to the nth degree. Especially my daughter, who is not his.
My heart goes out to you, and I will pray for you right now, as I end this note.
"Dear Father, I pray for this woman, who is precious, priceless, and dear to Your heart. I lift her up to you and ask You to heal her heart and to give her life, peace, joy, success, and the wonderful love between her and her children that is Your great desire. I pray that whatever is your will would be done in her life, concerning her husband, whether it is counseling or any other life-happenings. I pray that you would BLESS my sister from the bottom of her feet to the top of her head for the rest of her life starting right now in JESUS' name, Amen.
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Praying for you dear sister and that God will keep you safe from an abusive husband. Hugs
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Praying for your inner peace and good direction over this matter.. I'm praying for your strength too as well as the safety of your children. In Jesus' name Amen.
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I am sorry that you are going through things like this, what you said is very encouraging.. Hope all is well with you stay strong and stay blessed.. Reading this was a blessing..
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