Dh wants to take 2 months off from TTC. We have 2 children with thanksgiving to Christmas birthdays and he doesn't want another in there. I know he is probably thinking things through but.... What if our time is during that time? He doesn't want to really do anything to prevent he just doesn't want to try either does that make sense. UGH!!! He is so frustrating so what does this mean, to tell you the truth I am not really sure. I asked if he wanted me to stop temping and he said no because after 2 Cycles then he wants to really go back to trying and the info could help us. Ok so what are going to do or not do to not try, I have no idea. Is this confusing to anyone else? And if you understand explain to me. I think this is more frustrating than TTC.
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gracepaints
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It sounds like he doesn't want to be trying "emotionally". Obviously, if you are having unprotected sex, you may get pregnant. I would just let him call it whatever he wants to call it. Nothing's changed but his attitude.
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Sometimes I wonder if it is for deniablity. His family who really think large families are bad. 2 is all, that is what is expected and you should stop. It is preferable if it is 1 boy and then 1 girl. Anyway. Sorry bout that it annoys me though.
Ok well his family has complained more than once about the birthdays, we have one in early Jan. also. And it is like it puts them out. The were so happy our last one was in Aug. You'd think they did something more than ran to the dollar store and spend 10 bucks but anyway. Sorry agian. I know I know I have issues. But I was wondering if dh just wants to be able to say "well we didn't plan it that way it just happened" But man it still messes with my head.
Ok well his family has complained more than once about the birthdays, we have one in early Jan. also. And it is like it puts them out. The were so happy our last one was in Aug. You'd think they did something more than ran to the dollar store and spend 10 bucks but anyway. Sorry agian. I know I know I have issues. But I was wondering if dh just wants to be able to say "well we didn't plan it that way it just happened" But man it still messes with my head.
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Maybe you just need to clear the air about all the things you mentioned above. He needs to know you feel this way.
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