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A few times I've considered leaving this subforum for various reasons, this time I plan to make good on it. I've had some posters who I consider pharisees jump down my throat recently for posting some of the trials I've been going through. I've mentioned how my priest did awful things to me, and I've brought up the deacon's corruption not only in our church but in his job. This bothered some posters. They think it's somehow defamation of character. One even went off the deep end and posted links to legal ramifications. The saddest thing is, this guy was a poster I always loved in here and respected. Ugh.
I can't take people who blindly check their brains in at the door. It takes the height of naivete to think priests can never sin, deacons can never turn a blind eye to abuse, and that the actions of clergy can ruin a family's church life. I watched all the sex molestation scandal stuff unfold in the Catholic Church, and I was sickened to see some of the apologists who would stick up for the priest at the expense of the victims. I had thought Orthodoxy was a cut above that intellectual and moral dishonesty. I still think generally it is.
I can't post where I'm going to be attacked for sharing my pain and my story and my conflicts. I consider the words of one female poster downright cruel. She almost delights in my pain.
I want to thank ArmyMatt, Antony TX, Kylissa, George95, gzt, Dorothea, Seashale76, Rusmeister, Joseph Hazen (my old friend who first introduced me to Orthodoxy so kindly), my wonderful friend Anhelyna, definitely InnerPhyre, jckstraw, All4Christ, and a host of other kind souls who have been wonderful listeners. You are in my heart and my own prayers with great thanks. You lifted me up when I needed it most.
Thanks to those kind folks for listening and caring. But there are two or three posters in here who beat me down when I need support. I can't take being beaten down right now. I can't deal with any more Pharisees.
God bless you all. Take Care.
Gurney
I can't take people who blindly check their brains in at the door. It takes the height of naivete to think priests can never sin, deacons can never turn a blind eye to abuse, and that the actions of clergy can ruin a family's church life. I watched all the sex molestation scandal stuff unfold in the Catholic Church, and I was sickened to see some of the apologists who would stick up for the priest at the expense of the victims. I had thought Orthodoxy was a cut above that intellectual and moral dishonesty. I still think generally it is.
I can't post where I'm going to be attacked for sharing my pain and my story and my conflicts. I consider the words of one female poster downright cruel. She almost delights in my pain.
I want to thank ArmyMatt, Antony TX, Kylissa, George95, gzt, Dorothea, Seashale76, Rusmeister, Joseph Hazen (my old friend who first introduced me to Orthodoxy so kindly), my wonderful friend Anhelyna, definitely InnerPhyre, jckstraw, All4Christ, and a host of other kind souls who have been wonderful listeners. You are in my heart and my own prayers with great thanks. You lifted me up when I needed it most.
Thanks to those kind folks for listening and caring. But there are two or three posters in here who beat me down when I need support. I can't take being beaten down right now. I can't deal with any more Pharisees.
God bless you all. Take Care.
Gurney