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If you could change one thing about yourself what would it be?

Grammalamma

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Wolflily said:
I hate when people say stuff like that - it's unbelievable how easily we believe Satan's lies.

Here's a recipe: For One MONTH:
Turn off the TV. Don't read glam mags. Stay away from movies for awhile. Read your Bible. Pray. Find ONE talent or gift or passion and make a move to develop it.

You'll start seeing a whole new you if you'd stop comparing yourself to the .3% of the population who fit some inane Hollywood model of what constitutes value in a human being. Try it sometime and see what happens.

Very good post and worthy of reputation points, but alas, I have repped you too recently. :clap:
 
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bri4ever2007 said:
If i could change something about me............it would be that i wasn't born. Im ok now, but ive been through so much and often wondered why me.
but if you never went through those things you woulnd't have the wisdom you have now, and by posting about what you've been through you can pass on your wisdom to others so that they don't have to go through the same thing!
 
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led

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bri4ever2007 said:
If i could change something about me............it would be that i wasn't born. Im ok now, but ive been through so much and often wondered why me.
I agree with Jay. My life has also been hard but all of it has led me to be who I am today. I actually feel bad for people who haven't difficult times cause they miss a lot of things. Like, appreciation, strength that is found in adversity, understanding, humility...

Don't regret being here. You are precious to God, and to us. And as you grow older you are going to be able to be there for others who are going to be going through what you have gone through and who need someone who understands.

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HomeChicklet

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If i could change anything about me it would be how much i devote to God I suck at trusting ppl due to something that recently happened to me and God is the one person i should be giving more of myself to... also physical i would change my teeth and make them peraly white and shiny and straight..... and my skin color i woudl tan more
 
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