Hi there
In communication, may I point out 2 of your current practices, demonstrating you are
highly defensively emotionally charged. Now, you may want to modify/change them IF your goal is to have another person accept your current limited opinions:
Not once...
There has never...
&
2. ...but NEVER a homosexual person
...But science will always...
1. Usage such as
always, never, not once" are known as 'Universal Quantifiers': they create a chemical reaction chain in brains, that would occur AS IF it really were always, every, or never; otherwise known as communication meta-model violations.
Iow,
so long as you keep telling yourself (whatever), you'll create this
rut in your brain, that
deepens,
until any insight to the contrary is 'deleted or ignored'; because it doesn't match your preferred perception, of
the reality you want to create.
For instance (since you work with snakes
), say someone fearful of snakes says "EVERY snake is deadly, either by Constriction, or Poison; so I must avoid ALL snakes & I can NEVER touch, or god forbid hold one, or I must ALWAYS die". - Now both you & I know, that (perception of reality), is not in fact, reality. A little grass, or garden snake (when known as such), is mostly harmless. -
Well,
in the same fashion, your own meta-model violations, also stand to change, because you can not personally prove (what you claim) about EVERY-such 'homosexual' in billions of people the world over.
and
2. Anytime you respond to someone's work experience, like "Homosexuality is an
established behavioral-choice/pattern, that skillfully can be changed" then, you could, & did say
2. this word "but" tries to negate, everything before it; why do that? - in this case once again,
new info incoming, you choose rejecting,
because it doesn't match your preferred perception, of the reality you want to create.
So what you maintain currently, is not really reality, and certainly
not, "societal consensus" of reality. -
It is
merely once again
your preferred perception, of the reality you personally want to create.
Funny how transparent/naked someone's communication can be, eh?
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It's ok tho; because I am not trying to
*change* your opinions, I will leave that to you.