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Also, you bring up several interesting points which i've considered myself, about the exclusiveness of Christianity - that Christ is the only "path to God." How is it that babies, and people who've never had the opportunity to hear the gospel can logically and fairly be sent to hell?
Where does the Biblical testimony actaully say that, or is that your logic?
My view from scripture is that all who havent heard will bow to Jesus and so get the chance to hear the gospel.
But some would point out that as we are in a fallen state from the Garden of Eden so thats is the logic.

Don't give me the same old tired answer that it's because we're all sinners and we don't deserve eternal life.
So do you want the actaul answer or not the actaul one but rather one that suits you?
The argument doesn't stand because: did God not make us? Did God not create that sinful nature?
God gave choice to humans, it was human choice that opted for sinful nature to exist
If so, then how can we be faulted for it?
So it is our fault.
It is like a painter using the color red on his canvas, then destroying the canvas for being red... it's a somewhat of a Catch-22.
No its like a painter being told not to use the colour red because it will ruin the canvas; the painter using the colour red and God saying faith in Him will remove the red and restore the canvas.

What you appear to be saying is not consistent with God's Biblical testimony. What you seem to saying is that It is like God told the painter to use the color red on his canvas, or the painter choosing the colour red and blaming God for allowing such a dangerous colour to exist.

(how can anyone/thing be considered benevolent or loving if it tortures),
How can God who wishes that none should perish on account of their choices be considered unloving?
 
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God gave choice to humans, it was human choice that opted for sinful nature to exist

Okay, I'll accept your free will argument. But, I think there are some problems with it. When you say that humans are given the choice, does that mean each and every individual? Or, are you referring to original sin as the moment of humanity's choosing?

If the former, I would say that people tend to respond to their nature, and to the cultural impositions of their particular environment. For example, if God designed us with certain urges or tendencies, then how can humanity be faulted for responding to those urges? If a parent hands a toddler a toy, then tells the child not to play with it, then punishes the child for playing with it (let's agree that it is natural for children to want to play with toys) who's really at fault? The child for responding to its nature? Or the adult who, knowing what that nature is, put the child into the predicament in the first place?

This metaphor isn't perfect but I think it illustrates my point.

If humanity's choosing of sin is a result of Adam and Eve in the garden of eden... well then that's no choice at all. Why does all of humanity suffer for the mistake of two people?

I know I didn't choose to be sinful... I didn't sit down with several options before me and then decide, after many thoughtful hours, to pick sin over righteousness. I didn't choose most things about me, they just are. I didn't pick my parents, my place of birth, the values I was taught growing up... I didn't choose many things, and neither did anybody else. So, being punished for choosing things that i didn't choose doesn't seem like justice to me.

No its like a painter being told not to use the colour red because it will ruin the canvas; the painter using the colour red and God saying faith in Him will remove the red and restore the canvas.

What you appear to be saying is not consistent with God's Biblical testimony. What you seem to saying is that It is like God told the painter to use the color red on his canvas, or the painter choosing the colour red and blaming God for allowing such a dangerous colour to exist.

I think you misunderstood my metaphor. God is the painter who painted the canvas red, then burned the canvas for being red.
 
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Okay, I'll accept your free will argument.
Well it is based on the Biblical testimony, God said don't eat or you will die.
But, I think there are some problems with it. When you say that humans are given the choice, does that mean each and every individual? Or, are you referring to original sin as the moment of humanity's choosing?
it changed the state for all humanity. The Biblical testimony says all are either in Adam or Christ.
Is this a case of a question about God according to His testimony, or your idea of god?

If God designed us with certain urges or tendencies, then how can humanity be faulted for responding to those urges?
Why no? If it is freedom of choice, thats what one gets with it.
a parent hands a toddler a toy, then tells the child not to play with it, then punishes the child for playing with it
But God never handed the tree of the knowledge of good and evil to Adam and Eve, He said do not eat from it.
I see how you could be suggesting it is unfair, but how can one have choice without there being at least two options

If humanity's choosing of sin is a result of Adam and Eve in the garden of eden... well then that's no choice at all. Why does all of humanity suffer for the mistake of two people?
But God's testimony shows not all of humanity does suffer.

I think you misunderstood my metaphor. God is the painter who painted the canvas red, then burned the canvas for being red.
But that analogy misrepresents God, the correct analogy would be that the painter chose to paint it red. Your analogy tries to blame God for what He didnt do.
 
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okay, so one of my youth kids asked my youth pastor this question. I'm a college student helping out with the youth praise//youth teacher.

I don't want to write out the whole answer... or rather my answer, because i'm not sure if it's biblical or not, and it would be lengthy.

The jyst of it is this though, God gives us a choice... to accept his gift or deny his gift. Gifts are not required by the offerer, and also the receiver can accept or deny the gift. Him giving us a choice is true love, rather than him forcing us to accept. It is ultimately our choice on whether or not we go to hell or spend eternity with Him. Also God is pure holiness, he cannot accept sin, which is why Jesus Christ was sacrificed on the cross which was the ONLY way we could be forgiven of our sins. All in all, God does not SEND you to hell, you choose your path?

Sounds great in my opinion, but i don't know if it's biblical!! Need some help here.

Also I would give an example... like in a relationship. True love isn't shown through forcing each other to do things, it comes from choice. Given a choice shows feedback from both recipients, the offerer and the one that has to make a choice. Forcing doesn't show anything, it just shows shelfishness.

but yes, much help needed here! Let me know if I stand correct, if not please correct me!. I wanna to feed my youth truth.

God never sends people he loves to hell. The only people in hell are those God doesn't love and never tried to save. God never fails at anything he tries and love that has the power to save does save.
 
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Let me try to break down your argument into a simple statement:

There is no hell, our ideas of hell today are residual of older superstitions used to coerce people into believing in God through fear.

There, is that right?

If so then I have some questions.

So the message of Christ's sacrifice is that, through belief and all that, we are saved from death?

Also, you bring up several interesting points which i've considered myself, about the exclusiveness of Christianity - that Christ is the only "path to God." How is it that babies, and people who've never had the opportunity to hear the gospel can logically and fairly be sent to hell? Don't give me the same old tired answer that it's because we're all sinners and we don't deserve eternal life. The argument doesn't stand because: did God not make us? Did God not create that sinful nature? If so, then how can we be faulted for it? It is like a painter using the color red on his canvas, then destroying the canvas for being red... it's a somewhat of a Catch-22.

Although your explanation that hell is a misunderstanding makes sense to this agnostic (how can anyone/thing be considered benevolent or loving if it tortures), I think the overall problem still exists. Death is still bad, even if it isn't quite as bad as hell. Why would a God who loves everyone unconditionally and equally only allow some people to have eternal life based upon the fluke of birthplace, culture, etc..

Interested in your opinion.


Yes, God foreknew that most people in the world were not going to make it into heaven. God foreknew that there was going to be terrible moral suffering and terrible natural suffering through physical pain due to sickness, natural disasters, accidents and mankind's evilness. God knew that every natural living thing in this world would eventually die.

William Lane Craig (the great Christian Apologist/Debator) in his debates with others on this topic, always kinds of sidesteps Eternal Punishment of the unbelievers with the 'circumstance' thing. That God originally wanted a special people to 'choose' for themselves to be His. That this outweighs the punishment of those who 'choose' to stay in the rebellion with Satan. Is Craig correct? After all, like this post #35 says in a roundabout way that death itself shouldn't even exist if God exists. Human reasoning says that in all fairness, everyone should get to go to heaven. That the potter should not be shaping some clay for better use that the other. (Romans 9:20-23)

Like Jesus said in (Luke 14:31) that what King doesn't stop and think what would be his best outcome if another king's army is coming that is stronger than his. God exists and is a bit different in thinking than ours. We must accept our terms of surrender that He has left us.
 
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God doesn't send anyone to hell. He also won't send someone to heaven who doesn't choose to go.

Hell is a place of justice for sin. God's grace can keep us from receiving justice, through accepting Christ's offering on the cross and His resurrection over death and hell. If we accept Christ, then God does not cause us to receive justice.
 
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God doesn't send anyone to hell. He also won't send someone to heaven who doesn't choose to go.

Hell is a place of justice for sin. God's grace can keep us from receiving justice, through accepting Christ's offering on the cross and His resurrection over death and hell. If we accept Christ, then God does not cause us to receive justice.
Hi Dr Jean. Can you support this from the bible?
When I claim that the result of sin is death instead of eternal torment in hell, I can refer you to Romans 6:23 which states: "The wages of sin is death, but the gift of God is eternal life in Christ Jesus our Lord."
Or I could use one of the many other verses that support the gospel that we can have eternal life in Christ instead of death without Christ, ie John 3:16 and others. OR I could point out 2 Thessalonians 1:9 which says "these pay the penalty of eternal destruction."

It's true that God doesn't send anyone to hell. In fact there is no hell. The words translated hell actually refer to death and the grave. (Except Gehenna which always meant the Valley of Gehenna outside Jerusalem)Either we die without God or God saves us from death. God is good and he didn't set up an eternal torture chamber. God does not want anyone to perish, he wants everyone to come to repentance. (2 Peter 3:9)
 
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Okay, I'm just going to lay it all out on the table. Here goes...

God created mankind. Mankind has a sinful nature. Therefore, God created mankind with a sinful nature. Then, God tells mankind "if you sin, you'll go to hell" (whether he physically sends man there or not), or, as many have said, die.

Some have argued that we have a choice in the matter, that people choose sin and/or hell. Well, no one in their right mind would ever choose hell, or death. As for sin, how can someone be faulted for choosing something that is in his/her nature?

There is a strange double standard that exists here. God is "perfect," and he demands that humankind emulate him and also be perfect, but then he designs us to be imperfect? According to the idea of original sin, we're born imperfect!
Then, of course, the response is always that he has provided us a way out through the "death" of Christ. How many people died before that time, though? How many people live without ever hearing the gospel? If god loves every individual, then why doesn't every individual get an equal chance at making this supposed choice? We don't. Just being born outside of the Western world guarantees that this "choice" will be nearly impossible (I say nearly because there are always exceptions) to make, because it will require the person to radically alter their mind away from everything they've been inundated with since childhood.

If God hates sin so much that he's willing to deny the people he supposedly loves as his own children from having eternal life, then why create sin in the first place? Or, why create a sinful nature in humanity? Yes, I know the response that love is better if "chosen," and that he gave us a choice. But, don't you see, there is no choice either way. People who hear the gospel don't choose to hear it, other people choose to bring it to them. People don't choose the culture or the thought structure they're born into.

If god foreknew that people (whom he supposedly loves beyond our comprehension) were going to suffer, die, and end up in hell (whatever hell is), then why create them in the first place? Furthermore, why ensure those negative results by giving us a sinful nature?

If, as a parent, you knew your child would suffer throughout life and die a miserable death, would you still choose to have that child? If yes, why? To make yourself feel better? I frequently hear that god does things to reveal his glory... not only does that sound egotistic (which, by the way, egoism is in many ways opposite of love) but it contradicts the idea of him being benevolent and all loving. Part of the definition of love - true love - is putting someone (or many others) above yourself. Putting their concerns and well-being above your own.

So, if god created people with a sinful nature, then condemns them for sinning, then provides a single avenue for redemption that he knows few people will have access to, and he does all of this to prove his own glory (I can't help but wonder who he's trying to prove anything to), then I submit he is not benevolent. Either God is love, or he is the deity I've just described. He cannot be both simultaneously.

This leaves us with only two options. Either God does not exist, or our theology concerning him needs serious revision.

Responses?
 
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God created mankind. Mankind has a sinful nature. Therefore, God created mankind with a sinful nature. Then, God tells mankind "if you sin, you'll go to hell" (whether he physically sends man there or not), or, as many have said, die.
[/quote] According to you, but not according to God's testimony. All God created was good, it was the freedom of choice by humans that has caused humans to fall into sin which leads to death. This is what Genesis 1-3 says and affirmed througout the Bible.

no one in their right mind would ever choose hell, or death.
Exactly, those who choose it do not have a right mind.
As for sin, how can someone be faulted for choosing something that is in his/her nature?
Yes. If one has the choice between good and evil you have just said no-one in their right mind would choose evil. What they do is deny the truth, then they can justify what they want.

You need to get the story straight if you want to discuss the God of the Bible, at the moment you are discussing the merits of something different.
 
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"If God loves us, why does he send us to hell"

I thought we were in hell already!

Seriously, my answer would be: But does He? No, I don't think so and I don't believe the Bible teaches that He does.

Consider a parent and child. When a child is seriously disobedient does the father or mother roast the child over a hot flame while it screams and writhes in pain until it dies? No, of course not!

Why not?

Because God has taught us not to do such terrible things. It would be evil for us to do so would it not?

Rather we explain to the child clearly and lovingly what it has done wrong and why it is detrimential (cause and effect, what you reap you sow, etc) and then proceed to punish the child in a way that it will learn from the chastisement and hopefully never do it again.

Why should God be different?

Or does God have one set of laws for Himself and a different set of laws for us?
 
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okay, so one of my youth kids asked my youth pastor this question. I'm a college student helping out with the youth praise//youth teacher.

I don't want to write out the whole answer... or rather my answer, because i'm not sure if it's biblical or not, and it would be lengthy.

The jyst of it is this though, God gives us a choice... to accept his gift or deny his gift. Gifts are not required by the offerer, and also the receiver can accept or deny the gift. Him giving us a choice is true love, rather than him forcing us to accept. It is ultimately our choice on whether or not we go to hell or spend eternity with Him. Also God is pure holiness, he cannot accept sin, which is why Jesus Christ was sacrificed on the cross which was the ONLY way we could be forgiven of our sins. All in all, God does not SEND you to hell, you choose your path?

Sounds great in my opinion, but i don't know if it's biblical!! Need some help here.

Also I would give an example... like in a relationship. True love isn't shown through forcing each other to do things, it comes from choice. Given a choice shows feedback from both recipients, the offerer and the one that has to make a choice. Forcing doesn't show anything, it just shows shelfishness.

but yes, much help needed here! Let me know if I stand correct, if not please correct me!. I wanna to feed my youth truth.
"God being Selfish" (an impossibility by definition in this instance) would be fine with me because His Self is good by definition
Think about the self contradiction in the term "free will". It actualy means "self-will" & that by definition means it isn't God's will.
My true love for my children inspired me to force them not to run out into traffic. "Force" is a value neutral word the good or bad of which is determined by motive. The might of God is a power that saves as well as condemns.
 
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Well I have a bone to pick with those who call so many things "selfish" when they are really good Scriptural practices of taking care of oneself... but that's beside the main point here :)

When it comes to choice.... and God giving us free will.... because He knows what we will choose...when it comes to accepting Christ, God "nudges" us to do what we would anyway (because He knows remember?) and draws us by His Spirit... is it irresistible? I believe so...but it isn't against our will.

The same can be said about Pharaoh and God hardening of the heart... Pharaoh had already decided what he wanted on the matter, God sealed the deal based upon Pharaoh's choice.

About my previous comment, the nuance was missed obviously. GOD doesn't send anyone to hell, they CHOOSE to go there. GOD also doesn't send anyone to heaven, they have to CHOOSE to go there. :) God won't send anyone to heaven who hasn't chosen to go there.
 
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quote=Doubt3312;Okay, I'm just going to lay it all out on the table. Here goes...
God created mankind. Mankind has a sinful nature. Therefore, God created mankind with a sinful nature.
Not exactly. Man acquired that sinful nature, but it is true God allowed it to happen. He is after all, omniscient & omnipotent.
Then, God tells mankind "if you sin, you'll go to hell" (whether he physically sends man there or not), or, as many have said, die.
Yeah, consequences can be hell.:D
Some have argued that we have a choice in the matter, that people choose sin and/or hell. Well, no one in their right mind would ever choose hell, or death. As for sin, how can someone be faulted for choosing something that is in his/her nature?
Exactly, mankind is not in it's right mind since Adam, unless of course God in His mercy regenerates their stillborn spirits unto the salvation of eternal life & the faith it provides us to be victorius over our own sinful natures as well as devices of the enemy.
There is a strange double standard that exists here. God is "perfect," and he demands that humankind emulate him and also be perfect, but then he designs us to be imperfect? According to the idea of original sin, we're born imperfect!
Dream the Impossible Dream. The gap between idealism & realism takes imagination to straddle. It's a perfect set-up for character building.
Then, of course, the response is always that he has provided us a way out through the "death" of Christ. How many people died before that time, though?
t didn't make much of a practical difference being as it was, He freed the believers among them right after He died.
How many people live without ever hearing the gospel? If god loves every individual, then why doesn't every individual get an equal chance at making this supposed choice? We don't. Just being born outside of the Western world guarantees that this "choice" will be nearly impossible (I say nearly because there are always exceptions) to make, because it will require the person to radically alter their mind away from everything they've been inundated with since childhood.
My pleasure to inform you of your mistake on this point:
Psalm 19
[1] The heavens declare the glory of God; and the firmament sheweth his handywork.
[2] Day unto day uttereth speech, and night unto night sheweth knowledge.
[3] There is no speech nor language, where their voice is not heard.
"The glory of God" is the gospel, not His estimation of Himself.
If God hates sin so much that he's willing to deny the people he supposedly loves as his own children from having eternal life, then why create sin in the first place?
It's not exactly a creation of His, but I get your drift. He allows it.
And that stuff you've heard about Him thinking of every single human being to ever exist as His children, isn't the truth. Eph1:4 sorts them out for you. The Flood sorted many of them out of existance but one of Noah's daughters in law had nephilim blood too, so the need for an armageddon.
Or, why create a sinful nature in humanity? Yes, I know the response that love is better if "chosen," and that he gave us a choice. But, don't you see, there is no choice either way. People who hear the gospel don't choose to hear it, other people choose to bring it to them. People don't choose the culture or the thought structure they're born into.
Right. Sort of. We do get a choice but like our being an "independant & unique creature" it is predestined to be. Predestination simply means that an omniscient, omnipotent creator knew exactly what He was about to do (create) & what would happen in it from beginning to end in complete detail. The hard part is accepting hoe humbling that is sense of self.
If god foreknew that people (whom he supposedly loves beyond our comprehension) were going to suffer, die, and end up in hell (whatever hell is), then why create them in the first place? Furthermore, why ensure those negative results by giving us a sinful nature?
22] What if God, willing to shew his wrath, and to make his power known, endured with much longsuffering the vessels of wrath fitted to destruction:
[23] And that he might make known the riches of his glory on the vessels of mercy, which he had afore prepared unto glory, (Rom9)
If, as a parent, you knew your child would suffer throughout life and die a miserable death, would you still choose to have that child? If yes, why? To make yourself feel better? I frequently hear that god does things to reveal his glory... not only does that sound egotistic (which, by the way, egoism is in many ways opposite of love) but it contradicts the idea of him being benevolent and all loving.
Again, He is eveyone's creator, but NOT everyone's perent. Only believers.

Part of the definition of love - true love - is putting someone (or many others) above yourself. Putting their concerns and well-being above your own.
He sacrificed His only begotten Son. What more do you require?


So, if god created people with a sinful nature, then condemns them for sinning, then provides a single avenue for redemption that he knows few people will have access to, and he does all of this to prove his own glory (I can't help but wonder who he's trying to prove anything to), then I submit he is not benevolent. Either God is love, or he is the deity I've just described. He cannot be both simultaneously.
Again, He did not creat humanity with a sinful nature, but He did allow it to happen, so it is a part of His pre-creation plan.
This leaves us with only two options. Either God does not exist, or our theology concerning him needs serious revision.

Responses?
I hoped I helped with the theology revision part.:cool:
 
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Brethren, do you really think people "choose" to go to hell, assuming that hell is a literal place?

Who in his right man would choose hell. Hasn't sin made our minds disfunctional that we cannot see things as they really are? Can unbelievers "see"? Why would God allow disfunctional minds to make harmful choices for themelf which if fully understood would be avoided at all cost?

If God is all powerful, and that to me means that His will is sovereign, then surely He has a 1000 ways of overcomeing man's choices which are detrimental to himself. He did mine when I was an unbeliever.

Is God subject to man in any shape or form? If we say God is subject to man's will then a small thing like man's will is greater than God!

Why did Jesus teach us to pray to our Father "Thy will be done" if it cannot?

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How is this thread under Philosophy and Ethics...it's turned into Apologetics or Theology!

IMO there's no reason for the site to have so many forums if we can't keep to the topic and put it in it's right forum to begin with. Just my POV. :preach:
 
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