i want to stop

[Jo1]

I want to stop this but i dont know how i dont talk about this to anyone here i dont know why, i do it or anything, but i cant seem to change

 

[avonlei_cleveland]

hon i know how very hard it is.....i truely do..if u want to talk then let me know.....prayers are going out for u

 

[bubblefish]

Wanting to stop is a huge step in working through it Hun. Don't give up. You can do it Use your list of things to help you through crisis and just take it one day, or even one minute at a time Every minute you hold off is an amazing achievement

 

[Jo1]

Wanting to stop is a huge step in working through it Hun. Don't give up. You can do it Use your list of things to help you through crisis and just take it one day, or even one minute at a time Every minute you hold off is an amazing achievement

thanks hon

 

[nicola_whiteside]

trust me i understand. If you don't feel like talking about it wil help, then i will not judge you, but it does help me to talk to people i know i'll never see. i've not cut for 4/5 weeks. but i've also relapsed around 11 times. Never give up but keep fighting and ask for god's help and let him guide you nd give you hope. please fel free to talk to me

 

[SilentBliss]

it is possible to stop, but i found that i couldn't do it on my own.
i cut for 6 years and was hopelessly addicted to it. i had tried a few times to stop on my own, but never truely wanted to stop. then one day i was so disgusted with all the damage i had done to myself and i finally fully gave it all over to God and honestly wanted to stop, and that day he healed that part of my mind and since then i have had no desire to ever do it again. that was one year 3 months and 3 weeks ago.

maybe you've been asking God for help and like you said, wanting to stop. i dont know if this would make sense, but maybe God is going to keep this a burden for a little longer, maybe he has great plans that need this struggle to be there for it to happen. i say that because of my struggle with cutting i met people i otherwise wouldn't have met and lots of things happened because of it that ended up being really good and bringing me to where i am now, which is a much better place

hang in there, keep praying, keep fighting the good fight, and God will free you from this struggle when his time is right