I just turned 27, and I've never even hold a girls hand; not 1 kiss even. I am going out of my mind...I WANT to make use of my sex drive! It's driving me crazy. Everything is making me horny, I feel like I have to go to some Muslim country where weapon wear bee keeping outfits. WHAT AM I SUPPOSED TO DO?! I've been praying to God forever about this. please help...
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I want it all to STOP!!!
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I'm blessed to be in a loving and committed relationship, with that said--- yes you still have to deal with the sexual urges, especially since we're not married yet. What I seem to find really helps me is to do some active and focus on that instead of doing something you may regret later. Going for a nice walk outside or going shopping or just GETTING OUT OF YOUR HOUSE is a great idea~ you get to use up any frustrated energy you may have and avoid sinning.
Even if we continue to pray about this, the Lord is going to take away our sex drives. Its been placed there for a reason--- and no the reason is not to torment us. I promise
But we need to keep our minds focused on God and having true and loving relationships with our significant others.
I'm sorry to hear that you haven't been able to find a sweet Lady yet to call your own. I do hope God sends somebody into your life who may be a good wife to you one day. And usually it'll happen when you're not even looking for the perfect girl--- that's how I found my Beloved. I didn't go looking, but God brought us together.
Keep praying~ but make sure you're doing something useful with that energy of yours. God bless
Even if we continue to pray about this, the Lord is going to take away our sex drives. Its been placed there for a reason--- and no the reason is not to torment us. I promise
But we need to keep our minds focused on God and having true and loving relationships with our significant others. I'm sorry to hear that you haven't been able to find a sweet Lady yet to call your own. I do hope God sends somebody into your life who may be a good wife to you one day. And usually it'll happen when you're not even looking for the perfect girl--- that's how I found my Beloved. I didn't go looking, but God brought us together.
Keep praying~ but make sure you're doing something useful with that energy of yours. God bless
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Hope it don't feel like a simplistic explanation, but the bible tells us to seek God first and then all those things shall be given to us. Have faith brother, I believe that there is someone waiting for you out there. Do you believe it, or do you think that God don't care about you? I think He care about you. He knows all your hearth and all of your desires, and He is not blind, nor deaf or powerless. He can give you what you want. But remember that even if you were made king over all the nations on earth, even if you got one wife for every day of the year, even if you got all you could ever imagine, still all of it would be vanity if you didn't know Him. I know it feels bad. I hope that something of what I have written have given you comfort. I just want you to know that God is there, that He do really care. Seek Him. Pray and do not stop seeking Him.
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mylittlelambs
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Why are you not in a relationship? I dont think holding somones hand or kissing is a sin. Have you tried to find a girlfriend?
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Believe me, I am NOT single by choice. There's just a lot of... unique obstacles. Like I never went to a school that was close, so I couldn't make friends where I would be able to come over and hang out with. Not that it would have mattered though; I was in special ed since the third grade. ALso there's no one my age in my neighborhood, which I still live at.
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mylittlelambs
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How about your church? There has to be someone out there for you that you can meet.
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