I don't know, because I'm not quite sure if my pastor can help me. I'm just really confused and don't know what to do. I'm on my own at this point and I just want help to rid this anxiety. I think it might be OCD but I haven't been diagnosed with it.
I have undiagnosed OCD and anxiety too. I have been to psychologists, psychiatrists and pastors for help over the last five years, so here is my advice.
When I spoke with a psychologist (regular counselor) I quickly discovered it was a waste of time. It might have just been the psychologist, but I did not like it at all. He seemed kind of dumb and not particularly helpful. I can normally ramble about my issues, but I felt like he never really reacted to much, or if he did, he told me stuff I already knew and did not find helpful (or he got it wrong). That was in order to sort out a situation with a disturbing friendship I had just ended. I would spend lots of time researching if you were looking for a psychologist, and since your dad is against it, it’s probably not worth it.
Speaking to a psychiatrist was much more helpful, as they are more oriented to give you helpful advice and solve problems. However, their solution will probably involve more medication than therapy. If you need OCD medication it might be good, but I have taken it before (as an antidepressant) and it made me very numb. I am actually going to go back anyway though.
For anxiety and depression, speaking with a pastor has been wayyy more helpful. They gave real, applicable advice that required no medication. I don’t think they could do much with OCD though, unless they have it too. There are also some other Christ-oriented options. I have also solved relationship issues as well as internal issues by turning straight to God via not only praying but listening (meditation). OCD is actually improved by meditation too. I have had significant improvement with my ability to control impulses when I practice meditation in the morning for a few minutes, and it has proven helpful to many others as well. I practice both spiritual listening and the art of focus and relaxation when I meditate. I use the breathing techniques during every day life.
Healing prayer (such as Living Waters) is also super helpful, if that is an option.
So my advice in a nutshell: at least try the pastor and/or a healing prayer program; pray and practice meditation in conjunction with one another; do see a psychiatrist if you are able - a little numb is better than being a complete mess (it doesn’t get better); don’t see a normal psychologist.
Sometimes diet and exercise changes can help too. Try to destress. OCD is at it’s worst when you aren’t taking proper care of yourself (eat, sleep, relax, pray, etc).