I REALLY need your oppionion.

deliciousBass · Apr 25, 2008

Masked_Chris said:
again thanks for being honest..... but now I'm like REALLY depressed.

Don't be depressed dude. That's awesome that you went out of your way and asked her. And if she ends up saying no, well, that's one less girl you have to worry about ya know? I look at it as process of elimination. So move along to your next mark Sniper Chris!

Tinkerbell33 · Apr 25, 2008

I think it could go either way. She might not have expected it so maybe that is why she wants to think over it and make the right decision for her.

Blank123 · Apr 25, 2008

Masked_Chris said:
again thanks for being honest..... but now I'm like REALLY depressed.

i really wouldn't make my mind up yet which way she's going to go. yes be prepared for if she decides to turn you down but don't assume she will. Only she and God knows which way she'll go. Its anybody's guess at this point

Inkachu · Apr 25, 2008

More than half the voters said it was a "bad sign".

I agree. She hesitated, and then put you off. I wouldn't get too excited about it.

jcj3803 · Apr 25, 2008

So have you heard back from her?

Don't be too hard on yourself. As already posted above, have a definite plan when you ask her out. Women supposedly love a man with a plan. And also as was said, with a definite date/time, you could tell pretty quickly if a "sorry, busy" means "no". She probably didn't know if you meant Taco Bell or a 4-star restaurant.

Compliments? Dunno. I will compliment a woman if I sincerely mean it, but I don't get too personal too quickly. Noticing a new haircut or saying her dress is pretty is a lot different than saying she's got hot legs that go up to yar... And maybe that's a new thread...

Peacemonger · Apr 25, 2008

Taco Bell! Taco Bell!

4-star restaurants don't come until after we're engaged, if she's that lucky.

Luther073082 · Apr 25, 2008

Sorry but no. . . If someone says "I'll get back to you" that usually means "I'm trying to blow you off politely."

nucat78 · Apr 25, 2008

Luther073082 said:
Sorry but no. . . If someone says "I'll get back to you" that usually means "I'm trying to blow you off politely."

It might be different at different ages, but I disagree. If I don't have my calendar with me and somebody mentions doing something on a certain day, I don't always know if I have a conflict or not. So I have said sincerely, "I'll get back to you."

SonicBOOM · Apr 25, 2008

thanks guys..... yeah... I think I'm pretty much doomed to live my life alone. My inexpreince is the biggest stumbling block I've ever had to hurdle over. I blame the youth group I used to attend for teaching me that purety is a GOOD thing.

I'm really upset: here's why.

girls that have said "yes" to me: 0

girls that have said "no" to me: in the 100s.

I don't even know what to think anymore..... I think I finnally give up. It's proven..... girls find me soooooooooo repulsive that they would rather kiss a peice of moldy cheese.

yes I'm on a pity boat.... and no I don't care.

nucat78 · Apr 25, 2008

Dude. Find something that you really like to do that has members of both sexes involved in the activity. (I am not talking about rounding up hookers.) Go do it and enjoy yourself. Be open and friendly with the women there but not overly so. Expect nothing but don't be shocked if you meet a lady through that activity.

deliciousBass · Apr 25, 2008

Masked_Chris said:
girls that have said "no" to me: in the 100s.

I don't believe this. There's like ten women in ND.

Dude, I think you should just stop giving a crap about being single. Like me Seriously. Have fun with games and life and just having a good time or whatever.

Women are very intuitive and can pick up desperate guy vibes from a mile away.

SonicBOOM · Apr 25, 2008

deliciousBass said:
I don't believe this. There's like ten women in ND.

Dude, I think you should just stop giving a crap about being single. Like me Seriously. Have fun with games and life and just having a good time or whatever.

Women are very intuitive and can pick up desperate guy vibes from a mile away.

I'm not desperate.... I'm assertive. I take action. I do what I do because I thought girls liked that better than a guy who stands around and does nothing..... but now I'm not even sure girls even know what they want.

Inkachu · Apr 25, 2008

Masked_Chris said:
thanks guys..... yeah... I think I'm pretty much doomed to live my life alone. My inexpreince is the biggest stumbling block I've ever had to hurdle over. I blame the youth group I used to attend for teaching me that purety is a GOOD thing.

I'm really upset: here's why.

girls that have said "yes" to me: 0

girls that have said "no" to me: in the 100s.

I don't even know what to think anymore..... I think I finnally give up. It's proven..... girls find me soooooooooo repulsive that they would rather kiss a peice of moldy cheese.

yes I'm on a pity boat.... and no I don't care.

Awwwww c'mere Chris, I'll go out with you!!

deliciousBass · Apr 25, 2008

Masked_Chris said:
I'm not desperate.... I'm assertive. I take action. I do what I do because I thought girls liked that better than a guy who stands around and does nothing..... but now I'm not even sure girls even know what they want.

Yeah but one bad experience with ONE girl doesn't mean that all women are like that. You're judging the whole batch by one bad apple. I'm sure there's a saying like that

Lots of guys have experienced what you have. And honestly, I think you may have come on a little too strong. Had you been a little more subtle, your chances of success would have been greater.

Either way, just because you ask someone out doesn't mean they're obliged to say yes. It's not like you're doing her a favor or anything.

Inkachu · Apr 25, 2008

And dude...you're 21...not 61. Take it easy on yourself! People your age are still growing and learning about themselves, and a lot of them are still VERY immature.

Now, if you still have this problem at 31...I'd say there's a problem somewhere.

jcj3803 · Apr 25, 2008

Masked_Chris said:
I do what I do because I thought girls liked that better than a guy who stands around and does nothing..... but now I'm not even sure girls even know what they want.

They don't. Hmmm, I think we need an addendum to the Man Laws here.

Strength and honor, brother!

Peacemonger · Apr 25, 2008

Masked_Chris said:
thanks guys..... yeah... I think I'm pretty much doomed to live my life alone. My inexpreince is the biggest stumbling block I've ever had to hurdle over. I blame the youth group I used to attend for teaching me that purety is a GOOD thing.

I'm really upset: here's why.

girls that have said "yes" to me: 0

girls that have said "no" to me: in the 100s.

I don't even know what to think anymore..... I think I finnally give up. It's proven..... girls find me soooooooooo repulsive that they would rather kiss a peice of moldy cheese.

yes I'm on a pity boat.... and no I don't care.

DUDE! What did I say about being nice to yourself? There's like 7 things in this post that I counted. I can only imagine you say about 100 bad things to yourself every day at this rate. The first step is to completely give your attitude a total makeover. ATTITUDE IS EVERYTHING. RESULTS FOLLOW ATTITUDE. Not the other way around. You keep thinking that once you get women, your attitude will change. But dude, I say unto you, it is the opposite.

You can do ittt. Bah-ram-ewe. Bah-ram-ewe. Bah-ram-ewe.

Peacemonger · Apr 25, 2008

Masked_Chris said:
I'm not desperate.... I'm assertive. I take action. I do what I do because I thought girls liked that better than a guy who stands around and does nothing..... but now I'm not even sure girls even know what they want.

You might be somewhat assertive with women, but you're downright brutal with yourself. But banging your head against the wall only makes people dumber.

and gives a nasty headache.

Luther073082 · Apr 25, 2008

Chris, if in that back of your mind you have something that really doesn't belive in yourself. There is a good chance that something about your physical posturing is giving that away subconciously.

Don't worry about it, there lots of girls out there and you are only 21.

Also I have to ask, when you meet women, do you usually talk to them first or them to you first?

SonicBOOM · Apr 25, 2008

Luther073082 said:
Also I have to ask, when you meet women, do you usually talk to them first or them to you first?

I usually approach them..... and I was gonna approach her actually but she beat me to it.

I REALLY need your oppionion.

is this a good sign?

it's a very good sign

it's a good sign

it could go either way

it's a bad sign

it's a very bad sign.

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