I need help

[NorwayUnn]

Ya, relationships can't be forced to happen. If someone does force a relationship to happen, I don't know how they can get any enjoyment out of it. When both people want to get with each other, then they are a blessing.

 

[memoriesbymichelle]

Good news! Thanks for the update!

 

[blackribbon]

As widow/ers, we think about relationship differently. Our last relationship was usually very good and something we miss. When you divorce, you don't have the same kind of confidence. You have to know this.

As a widow herself, she probably knows thing about this unique journey that you haven't discovered yet...and maybe she is wary for that reason.

And on a very practical side, getting married later in life means that you may find your self becoming a caregiver instead of a spouse. It is one thing to be lovingly wiping the butt of a person you spent most of a lifetime with. It is another thing to do it for someone you don't have much history with.

Take your time and bow your head over this.

 

[chuck77]

I'm not so sure about this "good news" as being friends. Who needs friends? Ask her out to Red Lobster, the cheese biscuits will get her out of the friend zone. I'm not sure how this escaped me the first time.

 

[Camalinda]

Ask her out to Red Lobster, the cheese biscuits will get her out of the friend zone. I'm not sure how this escaped me the first time.

I'm pretty sure it escaped you the first time because you are too busy thinking about women in bikinis cooking your breakfast for you.

 

[memoriesbymichelle]

I'm pretty sure it escaped you the first time because you are too busy thinking about women in bikinis cooking your breakfast for you.

Slap! Oh snap, you did not just say that did you? LOL

 

[dayhiker]

lol .. I wouldn't say what I've cooked breakfast in!

 

[memoriesbymichelle]

lol .. I wouldn't say what I've cooked breakfast in!

THAT statement right there is already WAY too much information! LOL

 

[Camalinda]

Slap! Oh snap, you did not just say that did you? LOL

Just stating what our dear Chuck said himself in the "Should Christian Women Wear Bikinis" thread.

 

[Camalinda]

I do have to say that, cooking breakfast- namely bacon- in a bikini could prove to be quite painful! All I can think of is splattering bacon grease.

 

[dayhiker]

I find if I keep the heat down bacon doesn't spatter as much ...

 

[NorwayUnn]

Haven't you heard of aprons? Or would an apron destroy your image? lol

 

[dayhiker]

I could wear an apron ... but I don't have one. Would a french one keep the image right?

 

[memoriesbymichelle]

You guys are cracking me up!

 

[bobalone]

Meanwhile back at the thread. It worked Iquit calling her for a week . Sat AM she texted me and wanted me to come over for a talk. Well, I was greeted with a big hug and kiss and she told me she thought i didn't like her ???????????? WHAT??????????
*-) never the less we are out of the friend zone. What is bad I sold the Christmas gift I had for her to my brother for his wife. Now I'll have to get another one.

 

[dayhiker]

Often seem like one can't win. This year I brought several small gifts for me GF. She only liked one of them. So I got to take the others back. geeee

 

[power2theweak]

lol .. I wouldn't say what I've cooked breakfast in!

:-O

 

[power2theweak]

Meanwhile back at the thread. It worked Iquit calling her for a week . Sat AM she texted me and wanted me to come over for a talk. Well, I was greeted with a big hug and kiss and she told me she thought i didn't like her ???????????? WHAT??????????
*-) never the less we are out of the friend zone. What is bad I sold the Christmas gift I had for her to my brother for his wife. Now I'll have to get another one.

Congrats, Bob! That is good to hear!