Why is this such a difficult topic?
We, (all of us), have been informed that it is not up to the clay to determine it's shape. That it is the potter that determines it's final form.
The Bible pretty much states that man was created for Christ and that woman was created for man.
THE image in which man was created was the 'image of God'.
It is my opinion, based solely on the Bible itself, is that the 'image' referred to has nothing to do with our 'physical form'.
While many artists over time have chosen to depict God in 'human form', nothing in the Bible indicates that God has any such 'form'.
So we have absolutely NO idea what God 'looks' like or if He even has a 'form' that we can visibly comprehend.
Can God even take 'physical form'?
I would offer that if we, in physical form, cannot even gaze upon God and 'live', it would be difficult to understand how the 'human form' could contain the 'glory of God' without being destroyed.
The 'Spirit' of God? That is a different question. For there is also much indication that the ESSENCE that is God may well be 'different' than The Spirit of God. But then we are still left with the question of whether a 'spirit' has any specific 'visible' form.
So, with these things in mind, neither male or female 'shapes' are in the IMAGE of God. They are merely vessels of flesh designed to hold the 'spirit' of each. And it is that 'spirit' or 'soul' that was created in the image of God. The word 'image' not determinate of 'sight'. Little different than using the term 'image' to describe something like 'love' or 'hate' or something that cannot be literally 'seen' but can certainly be determined in existence. For in truth, we were created in the 'image of love'. For that IS what God IS: LOVE. And all He has ever attempted to teach us from the 'beginning' is: Love.
But we DO KNOW this: God is the HEAD of Christ, Christ is the HEAD of man, man is the HEAD of woman. For from Adam, a part of him was used to create Eve. Man was created FIRST and then woman was created FROM him/FOR him. This IS what the Bible says and there is nothing confusing about it unless one simply CHOOSES confusion over truth.
And if one is capable of submitting themselves to God through Christ, how hard should it be to submit oneself, in love, to others? In other words, why would ANYONE insist that they have the RIGHT to be whatever they choose so far as independence is concerned? For that is certainly not the 'spirit of God' living within the individual that chooses SELF over a sharing of love with God and each other.
Christ's message was clear. It will not be those that serve SELF that will inherit the Kingdom of God. It will be those that choose to serve God and each other. And those that serve others the MOST will inherit the greater PLACE in God's Kingdom.
Yet we constantly see many proclaiming to be followers of Christ insisting that they can be their 'OWN' entity and insist upon their own INDEPENDENCE and still be followers. I certainly don't see this option offered in the Bible. For how does one insist upon being 'themselves' and consider that any form of FOLLOWING?
We are suppose to strive to be 'Christlike'. And that REQUIRES that we be followers instead of the leaders that many insist they have every RIGHT to be. That requires that we be 'servers' instead of insisting upon 'being served'. For how could one possibly learn what love is if they insist upon being SERVED by others?
This is the MAIN reason that we have been encouraged to shun the WEALTH that would separate us from TRUE love and lead only to SELF LOVE.
Each of us is offered the opportunity to either accept or deny the TRUTH. And that includes the natural order created by God through Christ.
Blessings,
MEC