• Starting today August 7th, 2024, in order to post in the Married Couples, Courting Couples, or Singles forums, you will not be allowed to post if you have your Marital status designated as private. Announcements will be made in the respective forums as well but please note that if yours is currently listed as Private, you will need to submit a ticket in the Support Area to have yours changed.

I just got fired yesterday for no reason

Status
Not open for further replies.

rmw8855

Robin 8^)
May 25, 2007
34,003
4,163
58
California
✟74,702.00
Faith
Word of Faith
Marital Status
Single
QC -

You do have the right to see your employment file & you can take copies of anything you were required to sign (i.e. previous reviews). Call HR and speak with them directly - at this point you don't even need to talk to your manager. Explain to HR your concerns and see what they say.
 
Upvote 0

Thomas The Atheist

Regular Member
Mar 14, 2009
417
29
Belgium
✟15,689.00
Faith
Atheist
Marital Status
Single
Hey man...

sorry to hear about what happened...

I guess, if some people just dont like you... they might never will...

I've experienced this quite alot of times (in my close enviroment). It pretty much all comes from a bad day... or a bad week... or a bad "everything"...

imagine... someone (your supervisor) going through a hard time at home... having arguments with their husband, children arent performing well at school, she just discovered the oldest one is doing drugs, perhaps she has her period as well? It could all be alot of reasons, just flowing together and causing something like this. so, then she just goes to work, verry irritated, angry and worried. and what does she first she? it could be something very minor, which she would normally never make a problem out. For example, you just parked your car a bit over the line. so she gets furious and releases all this ANGER, goes to her boss and starts telling him everything she (suddenly) remembers you ever did wrong... this could be just some minor flaws, which you corrected, this could be something bad you said... but at that moment, she just doesnt care.

so her supervisor gets you fired, and perhaps (probably) she is feeling really bad about it now...

im not sure there's any way you can contact her (privately) and discuss this matter with her... you never know what will happen.
 
Last edited by a moderator:
Upvote 0

Floatingaxe

Well-Known Member
Apr 14, 2007
14,757
877
73
Ontario, Canada
✟22,726.00
Faith
Word of Faith
Marital Status
Married
Politics
CA-Conservatives
and man, please, dont put your future in God's hands... dont just agree that this all is "God's will and his plan"... DONT... really, try making something out of it with your wife... im not telling you to give up what you believe but... this isnt the time to put your faith into God.


This kind of inflammatory advice is not welcome in this forum.

We do trust God over all else--there is no other greater than God to trust! He is the giver of all things, and He favours His own!


This is PRECISELY the time we put our trust in Him!!

Matthew 6:33
Seek the Kingdom of God above all else, and live righteously, and he will give you everything you need.
 
Last edited:
  • Like
Reactions: msbojingles
Upvote 0

Strong in Him

Great is thy faithfulness
Site Supporter
Mar 4, 2005
30,943
9,931
NW England
✟1,292,162.00
Country
United Kingdom
Gender
Female
Faith
Christian
Marital Status
Married
and man, please, dont put your future in God's hands... dont just agree that this all is "God's will and his plan"... DONT... really, try making something out of it with your wife... im not telling you to give up what you believe but... this isnt the time to put your faith into God.

This kind of inflammatory advice is not welcome in this forum.

We do trust God over all else--there is no other greater than God to trust! He is the giver of all things, and He favours His own!


This is PRECISELY the time we put our trust in Him!!

Matthew 6:33
Seek the Kingdom of God above all else, and live righteously, and he will give you everything you need.

Exactly. Sorry Thomas, but I'm not sure you have any business coming into a forum that is for Christians who believe in, and have been filled with, the Holy Spirit, and telling them that is is pointless to trust in God.

That's completely contrary to what we believe. There may be times when we're not sure where he's leading or what he's doing, but we belong to him, are his children and know and believe that he will help and guide us.

I imagine if I came onto a section of this board that you were posting on/another forum where you were all discussing some aspect of atheism, and told you to put your faith in God because he is real and the only one who can save you, you'd be offended, or at least think me mad/rude.
So please don't do it here.
 
Upvote 0

Thomas The Atheist

Regular Member
Mar 14, 2009
417
29
Belgium
✟15,689.00
Faith
Atheist
Marital Status
Single
Exactly. Sorry Thomas, but I'm not sure you have any business coming into a forum that is for Christians who believe in, and have been filled with, the Holy Spirit, and telling them that is is pointless to trust in God.

Hey there :)

I didnt tell you that it's pointless to believe in God... all I'm saying is that this might be the time to just well, (I dont know the right expression), take the right into your own hands? perhaps God is out there, yes. But if he is... he would have so much work to do, perhaps he wont notice your prayer... so Im not trying to be offensive, really not, if it seemed that way, really, it wasnt my intention and Im sorry for that but... I dont know... I just dont want him to do something he might regret later on...

I felt like I had to help my fellow human friend... in the way that seemed best to me. If this by any means offended you, I am truly sorry, really...

That's completely contrary to what we believe. There may be times when we're not sure where he's leading or what he's doing, but we belong to him, are his children and know and believe that he will help and guide us.

I respect that and If you want me to, I'll promise I wont speak of those matters in this thread again... but I did this out of love for a fellow human being... isnt that what God really stands for? loving eachother? I just thought I did something good, to help him... I dont think God would mind...
I just feel that... if I dont tell him what I believe that's good and true then this will keep on haunting me and i'll feel guilty for not telling him how I see this...

I imagine if I came onto a section of this board that you were posting on/another forum where you were all discussing some aspect of atheism, and told you to put your faith in God because he is real and the only one who can save you, you'd be offended, or at least think me mad/rude.

Quite frankly, I wouldnt be offended at all :)
I would even like to talk to you about all kinds of stuff... and, it's very weird but it has happened to me several times... but alot online friendships seem to start out of an argument :D

Perhaps a friendship could develop out of this too?

sure hope so and talk to you later!
~Thomas.
 
Last edited:
Upvote 0

Thomas The Atheist

Regular Member
Mar 14, 2009
417
29
Belgium
✟15,689.00
Faith
Atheist
Marital Status
Single
This kind of inflammatory advice is not welcome in this forum.

We do trust God over all else--there is no other greater than God to trust! He is the giver of all things, and He favours His own!


This is PRECISELY the time we put our trust in Him!!

Matthew 6:33
Seek the Kingdom of God above all else, and live righteously, and he will give you everything you need.

Hey FloatingAxe :wave:

First of all, I have to say, I've read alot of your posts and you're quite famous around here so I've been looking forward to talk to you someday :)

I just typed a pretty long reply to Strong In Him's post so I would kindly ask you to read that one... I dont feel like typing it once again...

Hope to hear from you soon :D and talk to you later

~Thomas.
 
Upvote 0

SpiritPsalmist

Heavy lean toward Messianic
Site Supporter
Jun 13, 2002
21,696
1,466
71
Southeast Kansas
✟416,924.00
Country
United States
Gender
Female
Faith
Charismatic
Marital Status
Single
I didnt tell you that it's pointless to believe in God... all I'm saying is that this might be the time to just well, (I dont know the right expression), take the right into your own hands? perhaps God is out there, yes. But if he is... he would have so much work to do, perhaps he wont notice your prayer... so Im not trying to be offensive, really not, if it seemed that way, really, it wasnt my intention and Im sorry for that but... I dont know... I just dont want him to do something he might regret later on...

I felt like I had to help my fellow human friend... in the way that seemed best to me. If this by any means offended you, I am truly sorry, really...



I respect that and If you want me to, I'll promise I wont speak of those matters in this thread again... but I did this out of love for a fellow human being... isnt that what God really stands for? loving eachother? I just thought I did something good, to help him... I dont think God would mind...



Quite frankly, I wouldnt be offended at all :)
I would even like to talk to you about all kinds of stuff... and, it's very weird but it has happened to me several times... but alot online friendships seem to start out of an argument :D


:scratch: HE brought the whole world and everything on it into existence with just a few words....what more could there be for HIM to do that HE would be too occupied with something else in order to take care of me?

I have never found HIM to be too busy with other things that HE could not meet my requests, no matter how measly they may sound to some. HE IS able to do any and all things simply by a work and at my calling out to HIM for help. HE does not even need all the details for HE knows what I need even before I ask. While HE has shown me ways that I can contribute toward my needs, and it is expected that I make use of those things, HE has never left me or forsaken me without showing me the way out.
 
Upvote 0

Preacherchick99

Well-Known Member
Feb 2, 2004
1,281
109
39
Anaheim, CA
Visit site
✟2,001.00
Faith
Word of Faith
Marital Status
Married
Politics
US-Republican
Thank you very much everyone for your prayers and support :) We both appreciate it soo much! God really has been working on us this entire weekend--Letting us know in His word that He will supply our needs. He's been speaking to us telling us that He will not let us go hungry--And our bills will be paid. I have complete trust in the Lord--That He will supply all our needs and completely pay the tab, lol.

God gave Stephen and I some VERY powerful scripture last night. We are looking forward to having it come to pass in our lives :D God has also charged me with the task of supporting Stephen and encouraging him whenever Satan tries to remind him of his job loss or "How are we gonna pay the bills?"

I've seen God do miraculous things before and I know He'll do them again.

When the economy hit hard--I watched with sadness as my dad and step-mom lost EVERYTHING. They were big time real estate agents/contractors. They lost their house. They lost their cars. They lost all their assets. Had to declare bankruptcy. But through the thick of it all--The Lord kept them fed, clothed, and even though they lost their house--The Lord blessed them with wonderful friends who took them in until they could get another house of their own. They now have a home, the Lord blessed them with work, multiple cars--God is awesome!!

My mom and step-dad.....My mom hurt her shoulder at work and was on disability. Suddenly my step-dad lost his job. How in the world were we gonna survive with 4 kids, car payments, rent, utilities, groceries, etc--With $400.00 a month??? But ya know what God did it. He never let my parent's house payment go late. He always kept every single utility paid on time. Us kids NEVER went hungry. I don't ever remember a time where we went without. We had clothes on our back. A roof over our head--It was awesome :D Finally my step-dad got an awesome job in a supervisory position at a hospital giving us free medical insurance, lol. And then my mom got better and landed a job with a company that designs mobile command centers for the CIA and Police Departments :D

What do I remember through this? My parents still tithed. They still praised the Lord through their circumstances. They still loved Him and worshiped Him :) Stephen never saw what I saw or lived it like I have with his family. I KNOW God is gonna take care of us. I have unconditional and complete faith in the Lord :D He's taken care of me before--So now that I'm married why would it be any different? :)

Hey man...

sorry to hear about what happened...

I guess, if some people just dont like you... they might never will...

I've experienced this quite alot of times (in my close enviroment). It pretty much all comes from a bad day... or a bad week... or a bad "everything"...

imagine... someone (your supervisor) going through a hard time at home... having arguments with their husband, children arent performing well at school, she just discovered the oldest one is doing drugs, perhaps she has her period as well? It could all be alot of reasons, just flowing together and causing something like this. so, then she just goes to work, verry irritated, angry and worried. and what does she first she? it could be something very minor, which she would normally never make a problem out. For example, you just parked your car a bit over the line. so she gets furious and releases all this ANGER, goes to her boss and starts telling him everything she (suddenly) remembers you ever did wrong... this could be just some minor flaws, which you corrected, this could be something bad you said... but at that moment, she just doesnt care.

so her supervisor gets you fired, and perhaps (probably) she is feeling really bad about it now...

im not sure there's any way you can contact her (privately) and discuss this matter with her... you never know what will happen.

and man, please, dont put your future in God's hands... dont just agree that this all is "God's will and his plan"... DONT... really, try making something out of it with your wife... im not telling you to give up what you believe but... this isnt the time to put your faith into God.

Hey there Thomas :]

My name is Grace and I'm QuestioningChristian's wife :) I don't come on here too much because I'm just tak'n a break from forums :]

Anyway, I read your post and I just wanna say thank you for your concern. Honestly it takes a lot of guts being an athiest coming into an entirely Christian Forum pretty much, lol--And posting with good intentions.

I understand what you are saying about just trusting ourselves--Correct?

But to be honest--Right now more then ever is it a time to trust in the Lord. Like I said earlier--I know the Lord will keep His hand over us and I know He will bless us.

But I get what you're saying--Go out and do something. Make something happen, lol.

Exactly!!

We both aren't just gonna sit around and be like "Okay cool--I don't have a job so I can just stay home all day and wait on the Lord to give me my job!!"

-_-

God can't help you get a job unless you're out there putting out applications! lol--Comon now. So yes we are doing our part to make something happen so that God can use it to make something happen for us :)

Again Thomas thank you for your help. You're very sweet and I liked how you responded to my other brothers and sisters in Christ. You could have gotten upset--And they too. A HUGE flame war could have erupted but it did not due to maturity. I like seeing that :)

Well, be blessed! much <3 everyone :D

<3 Grace :]
 
Upvote 0

Strong in Him

Great is thy faithfulness
Site Supporter
Mar 4, 2005
30,943
9,931
NW England
✟1,292,162.00
Country
United Kingdom
Gender
Female
Faith
Christian
Marital Status
Married
Hey there :)

I didnt tell you that it's pointless to believe in God... all I'm saying is that this might be the time to just well, (I dont know the right expression), take the right into your own hands? perhaps God is out there, yes. But if he is... he would have so much work to do, perhaps he wont notice your prayer... so Im not trying to be offensive, really not, if it seemed that way, really, it wasnt my intention and Im sorry for that but... I dont know... I just dont want him to do something he might regret later on...

Ok, sorry.

It's true that I might have misunderstood. Maybe you thought that QC might sit back and say "oh well, this is God's will, nothing I can do about it. And there's no point in actively looking for a job, because God will do all the work and I needn't bother."
I don't think for one minute he was saying any of that, but it is possible that you might have thought so.

I felt like I had to help my fellow human friend... in the way that seemed best to me. If this by any means offended you, I am truly sorry, really...

I respect that and If you want me to, I'll promise I wont speak of those matters in this thread again... but I did this out of love for a fellow human being... isnt that what God really stands for? loving eachother? I just thought I did something good, to help him... I dont think God would mind...
I just feel that... if I dont tell him what I believe that's good and true then this will keep on haunting me and i'll feel guilty for not telling him how I see this...

Ok. Again, sorry. I'm sure you didn't mean to offend - and really, it's not up to me to say whether you were offensive or not, since you weren't actually talking to me at the time :doh:<- (I'm an idiot.)

It's just that QC will no doubt be trusting in God during this time; trusting that he has a plan, and that he will either get him his job back, or point him towards a new one. As Christians, perhaps the greatest, and only, thing we can do is pray for him and encourage him to have faith.
But it doesn't mean that you don't wish him well just because you are unable to go along with that belief - and maybe I should have thought of that.

Your point about people making decisions which they might later regret, because they were going through a bad time, was a good one.

And sure, I'd love to talk to you again.
 
Upvote 0

Strong in Him

Great is thy faithfulness
Site Supporter
Mar 4, 2005
30,943
9,931
NW England
✟1,292,162.00
Country
United Kingdom
Gender
Female
Faith
Christian
Marital Status
Married
perhaps God is out there, yes. But if he is... he would have so much work to do, perhaps he wont notice your prayer...

And actually, we do believe that God hears ALL our prayers. It's just that he doesn't always answer as quickly as we would like, and sometimes may answer in a way that is completely unexpected. But he knows everything about every single one of us - you too. He knows what we are going to say before we say it, and there is no danger of one of our prayers "getting lost in the system." ^_^
 
Upvote 0

Strong in Him

Great is thy faithfulness
Site Supporter
Mar 4, 2005
30,943
9,931
NW England
✟1,292,162.00
Country
United Kingdom
Gender
Female
Faith
Christian
Marital Status
Married
Hey there Thomas :]

My name is Grace and I'm QuestioningChristian's wife :) I don't come on here too much because I'm just tak'n a break from forums :]

Anyway, I read your post and I just wanna say thank you for your concern. Honestly it takes a lot of guts being an athiest coming into an entirely Christian Forum pretty much, lol--And posting with good intentions.

I understand what you are saying about just trusting ourselves--Correct?

But to be honest--Right now more then ever is it a time to trust in the Lord. Like I said earlier--I know the Lord will keep His hand over us and I know He will bless us.

But I get what you're saying--Go out and do something. Make something happen, lol.

Exactly!!

We both aren't just gonna sit around and be like "Okay cool--I don't have a job so I can just stay home all day and wait on the Lord to give me my job!!"

-_-

God can't help you get a job unless you're out there putting out applications! lol--Comon now. So yes we are doing our part to make something happen so that God can use it to make something happen for us :)

Again Thomas thank you for your help. You're very sweet and I liked how you responded to my other brothers and sisters in Christ. You could have gotten upset--And they too. A HUGE flame war could have erupted but it did not due to maturity. I like seeing that :)

You were given the name Grace for a very good reason. :) Great post, be blessed.
 
Upvote 0

Thomas The Atheist

Regular Member
Mar 14, 2009
417
29
Belgium
✟15,689.00
Faith
Atheist
Marital Status
Single
Hey there Thomas :]

My name is Grace and I'm QuestioningChristian's wife :) I don't come on here too much because I'm just tak'n a break from forums :]

Anyway, I read your post and I just wanna say thank you for your concern. Honestly it takes a lot of guts being an athiest coming into an entirely Christian Forum pretty much, lol--And posting with good intentions.

Hey Grace :)

whow... thanks alot for your kind words aswel, you and your husband would be the last ones I expected to respond in a nice way to my post here... To me, it never really mattered if a person is black, white, atheist, christian, muslim, buddhist or whatsoever, if any of them ever need(ed) help, advice or just someone to talk to, I was (and will always be) there for them. If a fellow human being needs help or a word of advice, ill always be there to help them out, with sincere, good intentions :)

I understand what you are saying about just trusting ourselves--Correct?

absolutely, thats 100% correct :)
But to be honest--Right now more then ever is it a time to trust in the Lord. Like I said earlier--I know the Lord will keep His hand over us and I know He will bless us.

But I get what you're saying--Go out and do something. Make something happen, lol.

Exactly!!

We both aren't just gonna sit around and be like "Okay cool--I don't have a job so I can just stay home all day and wait on the Lord to give me my job!!"

ah, well we both look at it the same way then :)

God can't help you get a job unless you're out there putting out applications! lol--Comon now. So yes we are doing our part to make something happen so that God can use it to make something happen for us :)

I guess we share a view on this matter, with only a minor difference.
You believe that it's God who will help and take care of you once you make the effort. and I believe that it's just a matter of coincidence, luck and most of all, the effort and intelligence you put into it.

But it comes down to the same thing so... That's fine by me :D

Again Thomas thank you for your help. You're very sweet and I liked how you responded to my other brothers and sisters in Christ. You could have gotten upset--And they too. A HUGE flame war could have erupted but it did not due to maturity. I like seeing that :)

you're welcome. as stated before, I will help anybody who needs it.
and you're right... a flame war could have started here and I'm real glad it didnt... it might aswel still start but I doubt it will :)
Its good to see that there are still some mature, friendly and caring people on the internet... I haven't seen many of those lately :(

Well, be blessed! much <3 everyone :D

<3 Grace :]

Much love, strength and luck to you too Grace (and your husband too ofcourse). Im guessing you're husband will check this post aswel and if he's as nice as you are, I'm looking forward to talk to him :D

now I've gotta go so I wont be on again till tomorrow.
Talk to you then!
:clap:~Thomas.
 
Upvote 0

Thomas The Atheist

Regular Member
Mar 14, 2009
417
29
Belgium
✟15,689.00
Faith
Atheist
Marital Status
Single
You were given the name Grace for a very good reason. :) Great post, be blessed.

I couldn't agree more...

Strong In Him, I'll respond to your other post tomorrow but now I really got to go, so I'll talk to you later :D

~Thomas.
 
Upvote 0

mikev

God's Love Is Big!
Apr 11, 2009
15
1
United States
Visit site
✟22,640.00
Faith
Christian
Marital Status
Married
Likewise, I am sorry about what happened to you. I have been through a lay off and it is not pleasant. As others have mentioned, of course prayer and asking God for help and guidance. In addition to that I would whole heartedly recommend that you forgive them and move on.

Until you do forgive them, you are allowing them to have power over you. I know, it's easy to say, "forgive them," but trust me, I had to do that. You can make a conscious effort to put off the anger, the hurt, the resentment, and forgive them.

You will find that when you do, it will be much easier to move forward. When you remain hurt and angry you will not be able to move forward because in your mind you will still be in that office getting the news.

I also know from experience that trying to figure out "why" is a waste of time. Even if you had all the information and their reasoning it isn't going to change matters. Again, that does not help you to move forward.

And something to remember is that all they took from you is your income - I know that's a lot, BUT, they didn't take away who you are and what you have to offer. They did not take away all your skills and abilities and your work ethic. They did not take away your God Who cares for you and has promised to provide. No one can ever take any of those things away from you.

Take some time to re-group - write down all of your skills and abilites; anything and everything that you know how to do. In doing this you will see that you have a lot to offer. And then look for employment from what you know how to do - could very well be a related field, or, maybe even something you have never thought of before.

Above all, ask God to direct your path. God bless you!
 
Upvote 0

Strong in Him

Great is thy faithfulness
Site Supporter
Mar 4, 2005
30,943
9,931
NW England
✟1,292,162.00
Country
United Kingdom
Gender
Female
Faith
Christian
Marital Status
Married
Upvote 0

SpiritPsalmist

Heavy lean toward Messianic
Site Supporter
Jun 13, 2002
21,696
1,466
71
Southeast Kansas
✟416,924.00
Country
United States
Gender
Female
Faith
Charismatic
Marital Status
Single
I guess we share a view on this matter, with only a minor difference.
You believe that it's God who will help and take care of you once you make the effort. and I believe that it's just a matter of coincidence, luck and most of all, the effort and intelligence you put into it.

I might agree with you if I have not had so many so-called coincidences and/or luck...all my life.

 
Upvote 0
P

Peaceful Dove

Guest
Thanks everyone for your encouraging comments.

Keep them coming. :wave:

Please PM me if I can help you with anything. I am working with California Labor Law all every day.
I have to agree with you, this has nothing to do with your Spiritual Walk. The truth is it rains on the just and the unjust all the same.

I deal with the practical things. I am a State employee. I know what is going on out there.

Contact me if you want to.

I am praying for you and your family. Please put my son Kevin in your prayers as he is dealing with employment problems too.
 
Upvote 0
P

Peaceful Dove

Guest
QC -

You do have the right to see your employment file & you can take copies of anything you were required to sign (i.e. previous reviews). Call HR and speak with them directly - at this point you don't even need to talk to your manager. Explain to HR your concerns and see what they say.

This is absolutely true. And it is very good advise.

:)
 
Upvote 0
P

Peaceful Dove

Guest
Hey FloatingAxe :wave:

First of all, I have to say, I've read alot of your posts and you're quite famous around here so I've been looking forward to talk to you someday :)

I just typed a pretty long reply to Strong In Him's post so I would kindly ask you to read that one... I dont feel like typing it once again...

Hope to hear from you soon :D and talk to you later

~Thomas.

We havea brother hurting very deeply here.
Do you guys really think this is the place to get into this? Lets just return to the topic and see if we can help in some way.
Easter Blessings
 
Upvote 0
Status
Not open for further replies.