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Iwannaflyaway
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I wrote a thread a week ago about how I am living with my youth leader and how she has a boyfriend who lives very far away. Anyways I was always upset about how much they talked and just recently Ive started to fear about them getting closer.
The reason I am leaving with my youth leader is because my mom couldn't take care of me. I know I'm "old" enough to be on my own but the truth is...i'm not. The second reason she took me in was because I was sexually abused for years as a child and she felt God was telling her to take me in so the proper healing can start.
I moved in about 2 months ago...about three days ago her boyfriend came to visit. I don't know how to deal with this. I know I said it was probably jealousy in the other thread but I feel like it's something different.
This guy is a nice guy...i'm not scared of him. I'm just scared of what will happen next. Also I get so upset...like enough to leave the room and cry when they hug or when they cuddle or when they show pretty much any affection at all.
This is where I don't understand myself. I don't know why I get sooo upset when he touches her or when she touches him.
The biggest thing I am scared of is the future. I want my youth leader to be happy...she has done so much for me I can't even begin to write it down. So married or unmarried whatever way she is happy. The thing is, is that neither of us expected that her boyfriend would come into her life this fast I'm afraid I'm getting in the way of her being happy...i feel like she is going to decide she doesn't want me to live here anymore...I feel like I'm preventing things from happening and I feel so bad but I also feel so selfish because I keep thinking about how I feel and where I'm going to go and if i'm going to be taken care of....and I'm just so confused and so scared.
and i feel like i just wrote a whole bunch of gibberish.
The reason I am leaving with my youth leader is because my mom couldn't take care of me. I know I'm "old" enough to be on my own but the truth is...i'm not. The second reason she took me in was because I was sexually abused for years as a child and she felt God was telling her to take me in so the proper healing can start.
I moved in about 2 months ago...about three days ago her boyfriend came to visit. I don't know how to deal with this. I know I said it was probably jealousy in the other thread but I feel like it's something different.
This guy is a nice guy...i'm not scared of him. I'm just scared of what will happen next. Also I get so upset...like enough to leave the room and cry when they hug or when they cuddle or when they show pretty much any affection at all.
This is where I don't understand myself. I don't know why I get sooo upset when he touches her or when she touches him.
The biggest thing I am scared of is the future. I want my youth leader to be happy...she has done so much for me I can't even begin to write it down. So married or unmarried whatever way she is happy. The thing is, is that neither of us expected that her boyfriend would come into her life this fast I'm afraid I'm getting in the way of her being happy...i feel like she is going to decide she doesn't want me to live here anymore...I feel like I'm preventing things from happening and I feel so bad but I also feel so selfish because I keep thinking about how I feel and where I'm going to go and if i'm going to be taken care of....and I'm just so confused and so scared.
and i feel like i just wrote a whole bunch of gibberish.