For no reason earlier he tossed a pooh bear doll at me because I asked him to help me with an art project I was trying to involve him in to keep him amused. He stomped and threw the doll at me. He's ALWAYS testing my patience. Then he tossed my dust pan across the room not at me but just in anger a little later. He's just...bad.
NO! Please stop thinking that. This is not about YOU, he is not out for you and he is not bad.
Some where down the line, you gave him too much power and he just does not know what do with it at age 2.
and do not give him more by asking him his permission.
When that happens, say, look we can do this if you like, if not, you can do this, this or this. If he acts up, then warn him, say, no we do not act this way and if you do it again, you will go into time out.
If he does it again, put him in time out and if he runs out, put him back, as many times as you have to. No reaction to hitting, screaming, throwing, none of it- just put him back until he knows he is not getting away with not getting the time out.
Eventually when you say, 'you will be put in time out', he will then choose to do what you expect him to do. He will then know what is expected of him and know that you no longer accept his outburst.
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