So: I think Z's poor reception here might in fact be due to a couple of unfortunate occurrences:
1: He used lingo which works fine in a subculture but has utterly different meanings to people outside said subculture.
You make an excellent point here. I'm sure it's perfectly benign within a church or even family (the rest of my family is very religious, if I was having some trouble and one of them said they'd pray for me I'd take it as basically "I hope you'll pull through this/You're in my thoughts"), but from a stranger on the internet it just comes across like what Nathan said:
Nathan Poe said:
"I pity you, and hope you become more like me"?
Or, like I've sometime seen it used in a debate "You have trounced me with your logic and facts, but you are still wrong just because and my omnipotent buddy will
totally convince you of that"
Zongerfield said:
I am praying for people, and I am going to forgive them when they insult me. Instead of trying to silence a unique voice, you should embrace it. But perhaps that is asking too much.
No one is trying to silence you, just telling you that some of us consider what you keep saying insulting. Take faith guardian's example:
faith guardian said:
Don't see this as a demand upon your actions, see it more as a cultural collision. Have you ever experienced that? It's like when I came home to Norway after Ecuador and I wanted to greet a girl, being a proper latino I leaned in to kiss her on the cheek, out of courtesy and proper manners. The result was a slap.
In Ecuador such was proper, in Norway it was absolutely not anywhere close to proper. The same thing applies not to your intention but to your actions.
In this situation, would you continue to walk around kissing random strangers on the cheek all the while
insisting that it's a perfectly acceptable greeting; even though, everyone is telling you it's making them extremely uncomfortable?
(As an aside I've been on the opposite end to faith guardians experience. First time I met my Columbian friend she did the kissing on the cheek thing. I didn't slap her, but I did stand there for a sec dumbfounded thinking "Wait, who are you? I don't know you, why are you kissing me?"

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Zongerfield said:
Really? I think it means the opposite, actually. I forgive you and I will pray for you means that although we disagree, although we don't see eye to eye on certain issues, I mean to give you the due respect I would give to any christian man, woman, or child.
But it mean something completely different to us. Take the n-word. Black people use it a lot amongst themselves. Hell, even if you're white if you have a good friend that is black they probably wouldn't mind you joking around coming up to them and saying "Yo, my n****". But if you walked up to a random black person and called them that, well you'd probably have a fight on your hands.
Zongerfield said:
I'll think for you.
Zongerfield said:
Take Clirus for example, she's a very outspoken person with some very extreme opinions, but that doesn't make her a horrible person.
No, the fact that she wants to commit genocide makes her a horrible person.
Zongerfield said:
She is someone who should be treated fairly.
She is being treated very fairly. Christian, Atheist, Muslim, whatever, I would hope that anyone coming on here and advocating genocide would be treated the same way.
Zongerfield said:
We shouldn't shut her our because she says things we might not agree with. Instead we should embrace her differences, we should try to find common ground and learn to appreciate those things we do have in common.
I hate to Godwin this thread, but I'm glad you weren't in a position of power back during WWII. "We shouldn't shut Hitler out because he does things we might not agree with. Instead we should embrace his differences, we should try to find common ground and learn to appreciate those things we do have in common."
Zongerfield said:
I know many of you hate me because I am a Christian. I know many of you hate me for my literal interpretation of the bible. I know many of you hate me because I think differently, and I speak differently than you do.
Like others have said, no one hates you. They might dislike your persecution complex or your attitude, but no one has even hinted at hating you.
Zongerfield said:
But I can't change my ways to appease you. I can't compromise my relationship with our Lord. I need his grace and his guidance.
How would you stopping telling random atheist strangers that you'll pray for them compromise your relationship with Yeshua? (Man that sentence sounds horrible

) You may have meant for it to be entirely benign (and actually I do believe you did), but honestly (at least IMHO) after people have told you it's insulting and you
continue to do it, it becomes even more insulting. To go back to the culture example, in my mind, you're now adding on "Your culture is inferior and you
will conform to mine!" to the end of your "I'll pray for you"s. Does your relationship with your lord really mandate insulting those that don't see your way?
clirius said:
No Christian has ever bombed an abortion clinic.
Likewise, no Scotsman puts sugar in his porridge! Also, you're not Irish unless you drink whiskey(according to my uncle

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clirius said:
America (founded as a Christian Nation)...
Rewrite history in your mind all you want, you aren't fooling anyone.
clirius said:
It just do happens to turn out, it is the Atheists that violate Civil Law and get executed, so the Atheists imply they are being executed for being Atheists, but in reality the Atheist is being executed for violating Civil Law.
In this case, is the civil law under question "It is illegal to not be a Christian"?
bricklayer said:
There is no spontaneous increase in available information, complexity or energy.
Well great, that rules creationism out
