I can't stand her ANYMORE!!!!!!! please please help...

[Lifesong872]

I didn't know what forum to put this...


Okay where to start. Well my mom I cant even talk to her lately. Like when she is watching tv I ask a innocent question and she snaps at me. This isn't just once people its EVERYtime or esle I wouldn't be complaining about it. We argue everyday. She brings out the worst in me when we do. It is worser than it seems. She is driving thoughts into my head that I want to do things to myself to make the pain go away. Just today was the worst of it. I don't know how am going to go on. It was of the stupid things. She was yelling at me just because I asked her to call the electric company. Then it started into us calling eachother stupid. (she put me in charge of the bills) she said I dont know how to pay the bills right blah blah. I seem so far away from God right now I dont know what to do...someone please pray for me.

 

[ScottHere]

I'll pray for you. But what do you mean she's driving thoughts into your head? Does she tell you to or is it just because of the fighting?

 

[wonderwaleye]

Dear Lifesong872

Considering your age this may well explained by the bears.


Mamma bear takes care of her cubs for 2 years while they grow and learn the tricks of the woods. Then one day they all go on a long trip in the woods. Mamma bear stops and lets the cubs play and explore.
The next thing the cubs realize is mamma bear is no where to be found.


Mamma took off for home and the cubs didn't know the way so they had to take on the reasonability of being a big bear.


It is not uncommon with humans to get to a point they can't stand each other so they leave and go it alone. They still love each other but can no longer live together.


I would suggest you put some space between you and your mother.


Hopes this helps.


GOING OUT INTO THE WORLD IS NOT SO SCARY IF YOU REMEMBER:




X Even though you can't see him, GOD is there!!! O
( click on the x and drag to the O ) ( then see who is with you ) steven

 

[Elijah2]

Hi Lifesong,

Do you know my dear that most mums are all the same.

You are 18 years of age, and your mum has probably had a hard life, looking after you. Mums do their best to protected and look after their flock, but they fail, just like dads do.

Now if your mum is having a change in life, then of course, she will be snappy.

You mum most likely has a lot a pain deep down in her hurt, just the same as you have.

When we get to 18 years of age, and even earlier, rebellion sets in. We become selfish, and selfless.

Now, look at your mum, and with a piece of paper and a pen write down all the good things that you have done with you mum for the past 18 years, and then write down the bad things of your past 18 years.

Do you want to PM me and talk about it, because I know what the problem is.

LOVE NEVER FAILS!

Love in Christ

 

[salida]

I didn't know what forum to put this...


Okay where to start. Well my mom I cant even talk to her lately. Like when she is watching tv I ask a innocent question and she snaps at me. This isn't just once people its EVERYtime or esle I wouldn't be complaining about it. We argue everyday. She brings out the worst in me when we do. It is worser than it seems. She is driving thoughts into my head that I want to do things to myself to make the pain go away. Just today was the worst of it. I don't know how am going to go on. It was of the stupid things. She was yelling at me just because I asked her to call the electric company. Then it started into us calling eachother stupid. (she put me in charge of the bills) she said I dont know how to pay the bills right blah blah. I seem so far away from God right now I dont know what to do...someone please pray for me.

I would ask my mom and probe - and find out why she was being on the defensive? Tell her you don't like to argue with her and try to reason with her. If this doesn't help - then ignore her and take the high road. Let her blah blah blah and act like a child; but you may have to be the adult until her phase passes on.

Fighting and arguing isn't going to help. It is ashame she keeps arguing - strange. Has she changed her personality? Is it a hormone thing?

 

[fishstix]

Have you considered whether it's time to move out get a place of your own (perhaps with a roommate)? Often, young adults get along better with their parents once they no longer live together.

 

[RedheadedPrincess]

Lifesong872 how are you doing today? I will pray for you and your mom. She may be going through the change of life, or it may be time for you to have more independence and live on your own as the other posters have said.

 

[Xineophoel]

I didn't know what forum to put this...


Okay where to start. Well my mom I cant even talk to her lately. Like when she is watching tv I ask a innocent question and she snaps at me. This isn't just once people its EVERYtime or esle I wouldn't be complaining about it. We argue everyday. She brings out the worst in me when we do. It is worser than it seems. She is driving thoughts into my head that I want to do things to myself to make the pain go away. Just today was the worst of it. I don't know how am going to go on. It was of the stupid things. She was yelling at me just because I asked her to call the electric company. Then it started into us calling eachother stupid. (she put me in charge of the bills) she said I dont know how to pay the bills right blah blah. I seem so far away from God right now I dont know what to do...someone please pray for me.

Jesus loves you very much. Please do not feel that you are disconnected from Lord. He loves you so much he shed his blood for you. So do not question his love for you just because you had these stupid fights with your supposed loved ones.

You should reclaim his words everytime something like this happens again. That should help you.