I tried that. I've tried to get myself to like girls that I didn't really like. That just made it worse when it either didn't work out, or I realized i didn't actually like them.I would focus on a different gal...
I'm not trying to get in tons of relationships here. I've seen the effects of that in my peers, and it's not good. Is it too much to ask to have just one special person for me? It never used to bother me seeing couples together because I never knew what I was missing so no harm done. Now I just feel lonely when I see a couple that are together and love each other.One thing. You are freaking LUCKY to have never been in a relationship at your age. Because let me tell you, as our brains are developing and we have no idea what is going on with our minds and our bodies, being in romantic relationships as teenagers can suck hardcore when they inevitably end in heartbreak. Kind of an exaggeration, but not really. I'm not going to lie, if I find a guy my age (I'm 19) who has never been in relationships, it's a huge PLUS. Guys who've had 10 girlfriends every year since they were 15, and especially those who have been in some long-term relationships, are not NEARLY as appealing to me as a guy who has almost always been single. Why? Because it tells me that he can survive and live his life without giving into the pressures of always having to have a girlfriend. If he's a happy man, it's even better because it shows me that he can be happy and independent and content "alone". It shows me that he's put effort into maintaining OTHER relationships, with his family, church family, and his friends.That said, I'm not being fooled. I know that most all men long for a woman. That's how God made us, and men, especially. Adam, in his PERFECTION, felt alone before Eve was created. Even though he was surrounded by God and tons of animals. He still felt alone, and God said "it is not good for man to be alone" (Gen 2:18) And that's when He made Eve. So I get it! I was very discontent single for awhile. In turn, I made some bad decisions entering into a relationship when I was 17. So just hang tough! And focus on God, work, family, friends, etc. And she'll come around. But don't be afraid to pursue her!
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