marino2duper, one thing you may want to consider. This is a difficult time, but perhaps it is a time to grow and find the innerChrist within you. We are here to live life, make choices, learn feel and change. Trying to find answers by memorizing scripture and praying may help, but also consider that you may have to be responsible for yourself. God isn't going to do the work for you. You're not going to suddenly be given a "pass" by God just because you did the rituals (prayer and memorization).
You have to be prepared and willing to do the really hard work. Unconditional love for your wife, Unconditional love for yourself. A positive loving acceptance of change-- even in a life style that you found comfortable yet distressing. If you can love yourself, find out what you really want, and know that what you are asking of the world is reasonable-- then there is no need or shame in standing up for yourself. Find that inner Christ, that inner peace of knowing you love yourself, even though you are not perfect. Find that inner Christ in you to offer unconditional love for your wife--even if she wants different things from your relationship.
You have to be prepared and willing to do the really hard work. Unconditional love for your wife, Unconditional love for yourself. A positive loving acceptance of change-- even in a life style that you found comfortable yet distressing. If you can love yourself, find out what you really want, and know that what you are asking of the world is reasonable-- then there is no need or shame in standing up for yourself. Find that inner Christ, that inner peace of knowing you love yourself, even though you are not perfect. Find that inner Christ in you to offer unconditional love for your wife--even if she wants different things from your relationship.
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