My parents were married for 25 years before they got a divorce (6 years ago ) my father was a pastor. He had low self a steam, and looked elsewhere (the world) to make himself feel better, he spent a lot of his time getting his masters degree to get a better job, better pay, and to be looked at higher. He did everything he wanted, and treated my mother like crap, yet my mother stood by him through everything, until finally he wanted a divorce.
They got a divorce (hardest thing ever on my mother because she knew it was Satan) a year after they got a divorce my dad got married to another women, which is a great Christian. The night after there wedding my dad said he woke up and saw how bad he was to my mother, and that he didnt want to be married to this women and he made a big mistake and never should have gone through with it
..my mother told him that he has to make the marriage work now with the other women, because she gave him every chance there is to make things right before he got married again
.but he just didnt see until it was too late
Satan is the deceiver this world, and the only thing you can do is be strong and know that god will see you through it and make you a stronger person. God loves you and wont leave you, its not about this world, its about heaven and going through horrible hard times to make us more like him
.I feel your hurt, I went through it with my mother, and she is such a good strong christen still, I dont understand it, sometimes I think my mother is an angel
she has helped many other women go through this very same thing
just know that god has a plan for you and will use you through this no matter what the outcome is