Um...no...I'm not going to give $5000 each to three great-grandkids from his first marriage to kids I've never met. All rights and privileges to being blood relatives of my dad end at his death. I have no responsibility to distribute dads money to the kids of his first wife. My dad could do that while alive if he chose to. And my mom can do that while she is alive. But I'm not going to honor my mothers request to give dad's money to his great grandkids......and I don't know their names or where they live anyway. My dad was married before. By law, all rights and privileges for his wife end at the divorce. I was my Dad's child, but now that he has passed on, I am no longer his child. Whatever his destination after death is, I am no longer part of his family now. Dad had no plans on going to Heaven anyway.