I'm not talking about changing, either, it's just a problem with language that there is no word for what I'm trying to convey. What I'm driving at is: please explain how it is possible for God to make a choice for me but at the same time leave me the possibility of making a different choice. Put extremely simply - can I choose something other than what God has already chosen?
But your claim is that God makes the choice, not that he influences it. Are you changing your position now?
It strikes me that you change argument repeatedly when backed into a corner, and then circle back to the same refuted claim that, if God makes a choice for you, you can still make a choice yourself even though that choice has already been made for you.
The really revealing part is that you never explain how it is possible for God to make a choice that leaves you with any other option than to do what he has already chosen. You simply assert it and refuse to even try to explain how it is possible. The part in bold above is the part you just handwave away and pretend that it is not a problem.
You start off with the notion that God made your choice
for you. Well, I don't say that. I say God made HIS choice concerning the same thing that you will also choose (for example, in the Predestination / Free Will debate, usually the subject revolves around salvation-- i.e. if God chose you and determined to save you, you will also choose to be saved). You seem to think it logical that "choice" necessarily implies the possibility of making a different choice. The fact that options present themselves to you before choosing does not imply that they could all equally likely be chosen. The fact is, you will chose the one you want to choose most, (if only for that moment) --that is, you will make the choice that influences you the most.
In fact, the level of CHOICE we humans make is hardly useful on the same level as what God chooses. I could have taken a completely different tack and shown a mathematical set called "God's plan", and put "Your choice" as a tiny subset within it. Since God, to my mind at least, is First Cause, it makes sense to me that Deism (where God only started things rolling) is bunk, and instead that he is intrinsically involved in all existence and fact, not only upholding but causing.
I do not say that God left you the possibility of making a different choice. Where do you get that? Kylie uses the phrase, "up to you", which pretty well defines what I mean by "choice", though she thinks it necessarily implies all options are indeed available rather than merely appearing to be available. I tell her that the choice is "up to you" regardless of the inequality of options, only in that they appear to be equally possible, and so you choose only the most apparently favorable. To me, that is entirely logical, though perhaps someone can show me how the options are actually available-- so far it has only been asserted, not demonstrated to me.
The only thing that ever happens, as far as can be scientifically demonstrated, is whatever happens. How can you be sure there are other actual possibilities?