Well, you seem to have a lot to respond to nothing.It's literally true that you have nothing to say.
Your point being?You also don't say you're an atheist, but you have that slightly snarky thing in your user title.
Oftentimes, when people are insecure they are particularly vocal and affirmative.Sometimes when people hide things about themselves it's because they feel that way about them.
Then why did you ask, in the first place?I don't think that's the case with you,
As I said, you are in contest mode, and I don´t think that personal beliefs (and particularly personal relationships) should be talked about in contest mode. It´s what your bible tries to tell you: I won´t "cast my pearl before swine".I suspect it's because if you make your beliefs known then you are vulnerable;
You make it sound as if unreasonable requests were hard to ignore or refuse, or something.you may be asked to defend them.
It´s psychology 101, but nevermind.That statement doesn't make sense to me.
That wasn´t hard to anticipate - it´s how I have been recommending to go about one´s personal beliefs and personal relationships from the beginning of this thread, after all.Well I do have some genuine interest, but you're right that I ask in order to try and put you in contest mode. I anticipated that you'd shrink from the challenge and you did.
You "are put..." by what you do?But remember that's part of what the OP was about - we Christians are frequently put in contest mode (and ridiculed) by being open about our beliefs.
Actually, the "being open about your beliefs" wasn´t part of the OP (at least not explicitly). It made it sound like you guys were challenged about your faith out of the blue. That exactly why I started talking about it.
And I keep saying the opposite: Your personal relationships are none of my business, as long as you handle them accordingly. (If, however, you insist that they are of any relevance for me, I will need some evidence. Also, if you put them up on a discussion board as part of an argument, don´t be surprised they are going to be discussed.)Also, I recall there was a thread made by a well known member here (an atheist), and the point of the thread was basically that "if Christians are unable or unwilling to share the most personal details of their relationship with God, it's because they're lying about it".
Undoubtedly.Not some people, all people. Atheist societies, pagan societies, all societies have rules.
However, I am not a society, and you were talking about me and other individuals. Also, I wasn´t contradicting the statement that societies have rules, but your assumptions as to what those rules are informed by.
...and you think this rule was informed by lack of belief in Gods? Or are you just trying to randomly associate negative stuff with atheism because you are in contest mode? (The good old "offense is the best defense"?)The more atheist part of your country used to have a very strict rule about how far west you were allowed to walk.
Firstly, I already said more than once that a discussion board isn´t real life.My experience is very different. I see it all the time on CF. Right now I'm involved in a thread where I said that the universe looks fine-tuned for life, and someone responded "No it's not. You have the burden of proof to show that it is."![]()
Secondly, I don´t think you have to defend what the universe looks like to you, any more than you have to defend that your wife looks beautiful to you. (However, if you tried to make an argument based on your personal impressions...that would be an entirely different situation).
Thirdly, and again: Personal impressions and particularly personal relationships (and even more personal relationships for whose existence we have no intersubjective evidence) don´t lend themselves to discussions in contest mode. Trying to do that just causes a lot of frustration to all persons involved.
Fourthly, I think you have to decide if you want your assertions to be considered truth claims about reality (in which case they are naturally met with scrutinity), or if you want them to be considered personal statements of your personal relationships (which might mean they aren´t met with the attention you would like them to be met with).
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