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Gold Dragon said:I am also concerned about some extreme Calvinists who take the ideas of Calvin to apparently logical conclusions that were completely outside the scope of Calvin's original intent. Fortunately, the Calvinist-Arminian debate is moving away from the centre of Christian concerns.
eldermike said:So, over time I decided to give all credit as a created being to my Creator.
For what were you 'holding back' giving credit to God before?
Jeffrey A said:But I thought, in the calvinist scheme of things, faith was not something we ourselves were even capable of, but that even our faith is a gift from God. Are you suggesting God was holding out on 'you'?
eldermike said:Over my years of study I have moved from zero to five points.
I realized that what Calvin begins with is most important. We do not know who we are, nor do we understand the word "total":
Rev3:17 You say, `I am rich; I have acquired wealth and do not need a thing.' But you do not realize that you are wretched, pitiful, poor, blind and naked.
Nor do we know the power of God :
MK 12:24 Jesus replied, "Are you not in error because you do not know the Scriptures or the power of God?
So, over time I decided to give all credit as a created being to my Creator.
I think that's what Calvin was trying to say.
Not trying to debate, just my humble opinion.
Blessings
Mike
BT said:Why even bother with faith. To the calvinist God withholds love from "some" folks, not to the calvinist of course.. because God has picked them really special like, out of all the millions of people that He predestined for hell. Which I suppose is cool if you're a calvinist 'cause you can walk around knowing that God loves you (yet hates your neighbour possibly, apparently), and that you're special above all the rest of the folks. And the "humility" cracks me up.., "Brother, I don't know why God picked me for heaven. I'm not special, I'm not important. I'm just going to heaven for no apparent reason while a whole wagon-load of my family and "friends" are going to hell... also for no apparent reason."
Jeffrey A said:But I thought, in the calvinist scheme of things, faith was not something we ourselves were even capable of, but that even our faith is a gift from God. Are you suggesting God was holding out on 'you'?
littleapologist said:it is actually quite apparent why these people are going to hell
Mike, you KNOW I love you. So keep studying ok. It is not a calvinist distinctive (nor is it a very humble position to claim) that "we give God all the credit" as opposed to "you folks who give yourselves the credit" (this type of statement is what has (right or wrong) dubbed (some at least) calvinists as arrogant).
Anyway bro... keep studying..
hindsey said:1) Total Depravity of man
2) Unconditional Election
3) Limited Atonement (Particular Redemption)
4) Irresistible Grace
5) Perserverance of Saints
BT said:You miss the point. If they are going to hell it is because that is what God chooses. Therefore there is nothing that they even could do about it. Why are they going to hell? Because God wants them to. Why does He want them to go to hell and others to heaven? Who knows. So it is that they are going to hell for no apparent reason. Do they deserve hell any more than you and I? No we all deserve it, but our escape was made possible by a divine odd man out game... So for no apparent reason we are going to heaven (because we surely did not deserve to be picked, and surely did nothing to get picked), and likewise they for no apparent reason are going to hell (because they surely did not deserve to be picked, and surely were not picked).
Terri said:I am a five pointer!!![]()
The problem is that my Dear Husband is a four pointer. This horrible situation has lead to some interesting discussions though.![]()
Terri said:Well, if you were a Calvinist you would have more self control!!![]()
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