Hello all,
Recently, a former coworker of mine broke up with his girlfriend of 6 years that he was living with. He's an unbeliever, but he's been receptive/interested in the gospel as long as I've known him. He has not accepted Christ yet as he said he doesn't want to give up his vices, he's not convinced he's deserving of God's wrath without Christ, and he's not sure that the Bible is 100% trustworthy/accurate. My wife and I decided to invite him to stay with us for a couple of weeks, as his ex and him said that they would need that much time away from each other before deciding if they could live together as roommates until he finds a more permanent solution.
He's come to church since he's been staying with us, but hasn't really had any takeaways. He's also met with one of the pastors and connected with a bunch of other guys in the church. He declined invitation to a bible study, and he's still not wanting to give his life to Christ. We thought it would only be for a couple of weeks, but the other day, he was getting some stuff from his apartment, and his ex and him got into an argument. She tried to leave but he tried to hold her back (non-violently). She left and called the cops and he was arrested and now he can't go back there or be near her. So it looks like he might need to stay with us longer.
My question is how long should I allow him to stay with us? I understand we should be more generous and helpful towards believers rather than unbelievers. It's gotten a bit much and you can understand the emotional state he's in has put a toll on my wife and I along with having to buy food for and cook for an additional person, as well as give up our privacy and alone time. I'm wanting to be generous and an example of Christ, but what's the cutoff point for an unbeliever? Or is it completely up to personal conviction? Any thoughts would be helpful. Thanks!
Recently, a former coworker of mine broke up with his girlfriend of 6 years that he was living with. He's an unbeliever, but he's been receptive/interested in the gospel as long as I've known him. He has not accepted Christ yet as he said he doesn't want to give up his vices, he's not convinced he's deserving of God's wrath without Christ, and he's not sure that the Bible is 100% trustworthy/accurate. My wife and I decided to invite him to stay with us for a couple of weeks, as his ex and him said that they would need that much time away from each other before deciding if they could live together as roommates until he finds a more permanent solution.
He's come to church since he's been staying with us, but hasn't really had any takeaways. He's also met with one of the pastors and connected with a bunch of other guys in the church. He declined invitation to a bible study, and he's still not wanting to give his life to Christ. We thought it would only be for a couple of weeks, but the other day, he was getting some stuff from his apartment, and his ex and him got into an argument. She tried to leave but he tried to hold her back (non-violently). She left and called the cops and he was arrested and now he can't go back there or be near her. So it looks like he might need to stay with us longer.
My question is how long should I allow him to stay with us? I understand we should be more generous and helpful towards believers rather than unbelievers. It's gotten a bit much and you can understand the emotional state he's in has put a toll on my wife and I along with having to buy food for and cook for an additional person, as well as give up our privacy and alone time. I'm wanting to be generous and an example of Christ, but what's the cutoff point for an unbeliever? Or is it completely up to personal conviction? Any thoughts would be helpful. Thanks!