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I don't think there's a single, one-size-fits-all answer for this. I wanted to marry my fiancee the night we first met. She has said she felt the same way. I suppose some people wouldn't be comfortable with that and that's okay.I really think its good to get this advice from not only seasoned christians but those with experience.
I know some guys will keep their woman in girlfriend mode for 3+ years with no intent to marry but just reap the benefits and I feel like that's so wrong-- because you're literally performing for a ring and the ring could never come...the guy could push the date further and further away or worse...break it off...
resulting in simply being used.
So when should a guy propose?
Id really love to hear from guys young and (advanced in years lol)
because you guys know how men operate..(whether they genuinely like a woman or just stringing her along for the goods). I feel if the particular man is certain about
a woman they wouldn't have to waste too much time knowing whether or not they want to be with that particular woman.
So when should a guy think of marriage?
Ive heard some say a year....
any other perspectives?
I suppose the most salient issue is how you feel about it. It's fine for somebody to want to marry you but what do you think is the appropriate amount of time for a discussion about marriage? Some people have really strange and unusual life circumstances where marriage is something that should probably wait a while.
Only you and he can really decide what's right for your particular situation.
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