The spectrum varies with the rest of the group. Most see individual issues of their own with the fundamentals but do not see how they all interconnect (how an issue with one puts another point on the line). The larger picture is not there. As a result there are a lot of inconsistencies in belief and action that are evident, but don't register. Likewise, the fact that the beliefs have to be imposed on others for the sake of baptism/membership doesn't seem to register... partly because the majority of the group is from a generation which didn't have to take that vow themselves and have never taken the time to consider everything that it contains (nor do they understand the issues I am raising because they don't really understand the doctrine in the first place

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There are a lot of similarities in questioning the beliefs, but the biggest difference is that I (and my wife) are alone in questioning "the prophet." The others will not even look into the issue but instead repeat back the same tired arguments in her defense. Even where their interpretation of scripture runs completely contrary to EGW they will not look into it.
I feel like my issues are being listened to (and we have delayed actually signing with a sponsoring church for a couple months now as a result), but unfortunately exactly what I am saying does not ever seem to be heard for what I intend. My words always seem to get magically transformed into something else and the impact is entierly lost every time. The only person who understands what I say is my wife most of the time, and her attempts at "re-translation" almost always fail as well. As a result, the gunning is indeed for Adventistizing the people despite doctrinal differences
(because the significance of those differences is not understood).