I was brought up Catholic, and that helped me to keep from getting killed or put in jail for the rest of my life, plus I had enough principles so I could live with my parents and not take sides during their divorce, and then go through college and make a living.
But I was a social misfit. People actually hired me, though, to teach, to care for special needs children, and become a Navy Hospital Corpsman and laboratory worker. But I messed it all up, and in the Navy I asked Jesus to save me but then I was just criticizing people, most of the time, and fearing women who I thought might want to marry me. But at least I was in the Bible and dealing with what Jesus has to say about me, instead of how I was just busy busy busy with doing things I thought would get me to Heaven. I needed to find out how to love, and be personal with God.
I broke down from my so-called faith a number of times. And one day I sensed seeing Jesus on the cross, and I understood that the thief on the cross just knew he needed Jesus and trusted in Him. I was told in myself not to try to straighten myself out, but Jesus would know what to do with me. And I offered myself to Him, for Him to be the Judge of if I was being for real with Him, about this, or not. And since then . . . thank You, God ! ! !
My main correction process still has been to not be so fast to criticize wrong people, but first care about them and have hope for them and pray blessing to them all. And grow in how God has me being submissive and gentle and quiet in sharing with Him > Colossians 3:15, 1 Peter 3:4. And He has people who help me with this. I am not on my own