I guess what your missing is that we do care about others potential future suffering, we do relate and we do feel sad for people...
That's precisely why we say something now, while the future of the individual can still be changed. That's why we pray for God to enact change in people's hearts, now... that's why we try to live as light and not darkness, now....
Because now is when we can influence change in others.
When it's too late, when we no longer have any ability to do anything for others, then I'm going to get on with my own afterlife, and enjoy the presence of the God who created me, and who saved me. Then I will spare no tear, because I'll be all cried out before that time.
If you dont think that's love, that's your own problem - not mine. Once it's solely in God's power, I trust Him to do what's right and just. There is no injustice in Him. Period. I will not sit in sorrow for what may have been, because I will have done all I could..
I'm trying to imagine this.
My (insert dearly loved other person) is suffering the worst fate imaginable.
But I'm happy.
No. I can't imagine that.
Love means something, and we all know what it means. No parent can see their child in horrible agony and not blame themself. Their family and friends will assure them that they did all they could, and they will try to believe it, and maybe it's even true - but still, they will still feel terrible pain, because they love the person, and that's what love means. Even if they are convinced that their loved one actually deserves the punishment, it still hurts them. Yes, we've seen plenty of parents of criminals who say that their children deserve the punishment society is giving them. But I've never seen or heard of any parent who can say they are
happy because of it, and feeling no sadness.
You know this is true. We all do. A parent who could see their child in pain and be happy, with no pain of their own...you'd have to question if they actually loved the child. You can't say "I'm sorry that my loved one is in terrible agony, but I'm not going to let it bother me," and have all of those words be true. At least one of them must be false, because that's what love means.
You say that you'll have cried all your tears already. What sort of love is this that you can feel no pain, indeed feel happy, while your loved on is still in agony, and will be forever?
This isn't my problem at all, because I don't think it will ever happen. There is no hell, and there is no heaven, and nobody will ever face this difficulty. But for those Christians who do believe in a hell, the question of how they could be happy in heaven while loved ones are suffering eternally is one that can't really be answered, except in a bad way. Will God give them a mind wipe? Will they somehow enjoy looking down? Or will they decide that they did everything they could, so they may as well just forget about it and enjoy heaven now?
These answers all speak for themselves. I'm not sure which one would be the greatest indictment of Christianity. It's truly hard to tell.