What about things to your liking also? Are you his wife or his slave? I'm serious. When do you do what you want to?
It's hard to say what I like. This sounds stupid but I enjoy researching products before I buy... reading about makeup /creams /facial oil especially now that age is creeping in and I sometimes have difficulty using the products I did before. I try to research before I buy so not to waste money but that irritates him.
Somehow he found out the topics I was googling, I think through our router and at that time I was trying to find a cream to reduce wrinkles or something and he often says comments like you waste your time searching for creams.
example if I went to get pedicure or if I did my nails, he seems happy for me but then rubs it in my face later on about the life I am now living, etc.... so I have stopped going for awhile .
Then he complains cause my dry hands and brittle nails are not lady like, can't use the word to describe what he said they looked like.... it's not polite.
We had an agreement that we would have no boys or girls night out. I didn’t realise that would include no going for coffee or lunch alone with my female friends. We only socialize together so if he's not available I stay home. I think once I went out with my mom for birthday breakfast alone cause he was busy working and once twice to her house.
My Christmas family gathering he doesn't like at all. This year he said he had a project due and couldn't go so I went alone. He thinks they are losers, etc... my mom and one or two sisters he doesn't mind. There are no doctors or engineers in my family.
I wanted a bike this summer to exercise cause I have gained weight (which he mentions).
He made some remarks like where would we put them. I found a store that had one I liked,.he asked if they delivered and then said we can't put two bikes in the trunk of our car so it never happened.
He wants me to take cooking lessons to improve the way I cook but I haven't found any yet that I like except for a 2 year day school so that's out of the question.
I wanted a Christmas tree. I love the way it looks. I bought one last year and put it up again this year. He's not happy about that. Often makes comments ....Waste of time, etc. ....
He encourages me to go to the gym and take walks.