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How can I come back from being apostate? (Hebrews 6)

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It's hard to want the truth when the truth says it's too late... I want there to still be hope for OP and me.
 
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I believe an apostate is defined as, those who have once been enlightened, tasted the heavenly gift, become partakers of the Holy Spirit, tasted the good word of God and the miracles of the coming age, and then fall away, or turn from their allegiance.
My bible college may have mentioned it, I said that i didn't pay mind if they did.
The sheer number of people claiming it is impossible for a Christian to apostacize is not in and of itself proof that i'm misinterpreting scripture. A great majority of "Christians"... especially in America believe that you can be saved, as long as you Say a pray and ask Jesus into your heart. Even if you live as if you never knew Him.
So, the majority does not define Truth, or my opinion. I could care less what the majority thinks.

Hebrews 6 clearly and plainly states that one can become apostate. What i'm not sure about, and honestly I'm not sure that anyone with intellectual scriptural honesty can be sure about... is if the person described in Hebrews 6 is truly born again, or not.

I truly believe it describes someone who was never truly born again and regenerated. I can give a detailed explanation of why I believe this.

That being said, I do not believe, I was ever truly born again.

So then, the question becomes, is it impossible for me to be restored to repentance?
I have found, despite probably a hundred different times that I have decided to follow Christ for good, that I never have been able to hold fast.. no matter how powerful my resolve. I wonder if Hebrews 6 is simply the explaination of why this is happening.
 
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This shows you did not go to bible college.

sure...haha


...no such thing

lol...of course...it was that tricky Satan playing matchmaker again



lol...very active imagination for sure

Why have you bothered writing a post if all you can do is doubt, mock and make fun of the OP?
 
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I hope that i only suffer in this life for what I have done. If i do somehow come out of this, the Lord will use me to set many free from the bondage i'm experiencing.
 
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I want righteousness thru faith. However I can't seem to muster true repentance

Don't try to FEEL suitably remorseful/sorrowful for your sin. Tell God you're sorry and want to come back to him. Read the Bible and focus on his amazing love.
The Holy Spirit convicts of sin; that's his job. Forget FEELINGS of love, sorry, joy etc, repent and start walking with him.

Although if you generally have no feelings of joy/sorrow/happiness etc in your life at all, it might be worth seeing a doctor in case you're depressed.
 
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But does 1 John 1:9 say that nobody can walk away from His hand?

1John is the apostle John's letter.
Jesus is quoted in the gospels.

You are a bible college graduate and should be well aware of the difference and of the verse, which I did not quote in full or give a reference for.
 
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I hope that i only suffer in this life for what I have done. If i do somehow come out of this, the Lord will use me to set many free from the bondage i'm experiencing.

Sounds like you ARE suffering.
But Christ suffered and died for your sin so that you wouldn't have to face punishment and death. He said the if the Son sets you free you will be truly free.
Just ask him - and then live, and rejoice, in that freedom.
 
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1John is the apostle John's letter.
Jesus is quoted in the gospels.

You are a bible college graduate and should be well aware of the difference and of the verse, which I did not quote in full or give a reference for.
The epistles' sole purpose is to expand upon the gospels teachings. Jesus said that nobody can take you from His hand. Yes, if you remain in His hand. Everything Jesus promised was conditional. "Remain in me, and..
Abide in me and....
If my words remain in you...."
Enough with the ear tickling heresy. You must be hot or cold for Jesus. There is no in between. Take it from the apostate.
 
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It's not a problem if you go to the Greek, upon which my post is based.
There is still the problem when you go to the Greek. Technically, it cannot be accurately translated to English. There will always be translation variations.
 
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Please explain more
 
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The epistles' sole purpose is to expand upon the gospels teachings. Jesus said that nobody can take you from His hand. Yes, if you remain in His hand. Everything Jesus promised was conditional.

No, that's works.
That would be saying, "my love, grace, salvation, promises are dependant upon YOU doing YOUR bit."
God loves because he is love. He shows grace, mercy, kindness etc because he is all those things. He sent Jesus to die for sinners - godless, wicked, death deserving sinners, Romans 6:23; Romans 5:8.

Read your own story and look at how many times he spoke to you, prompted you - like to put on your motorcycle helmet - gave visions through a friend, and so on. You yourself have testified to being overwhelmed with his love, ignoring it and going off to sin, only for him to speak to you again.

I think you probably ARE in his hand, but have chosen to turn your back on him and say "I need to figure out for myself how to see his face."
Try turning round - which is what repentance is; turning away from sin. Don't look at sin, look at your heavenly Father.
 
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God Bless you. The Love of God abounds in your heart. It is clearly evident.
 
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I hope that i only suffer in this life for what I have done. If i do somehow come out of this, the Lord will use me to set many free from the bondage i'm experiencing.
For me and my life, I have experienced to a lesser extent what King Saul experienced but after what seemed like a long time, things a gotten almost back to normal. The actual Scripture I quoted from Hebrews 10 cannot be escaped. However, that Scripture tells us that instead of a simple heartfelt repentance, there is punishment to deal with. As a result of that, I feel that because of The Grace of God The Father, I’m back under a state of Grace. However, you might have to endure more before that happens. Only God knows that.

2Cor.5
  1. [11] Knowing therefore the terror of the Lord, we persuade men; but we are made manifest unto God; and I trust also are made manifest in your consciences.
I have known The Terror of The Lord and since The Fear of The Lord is the beginning of knowledge, The Word Above from 2 Corinthians makes perfect sense.

I do pray that what I have shared with you helps.
 
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God Bless you. The Love of God abounds in your heart. It is clearly evident.

Thanks you; that's kind.
I can only love because God, who is love, loves me.

May God bless you too.
 
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Trust me, the person described in Hebrews 6 is definitely "born again". The writer goes into detail to describe that person:

1. Someone who has been enlightened is someone who has heard the gospel and now knows the will of God.

2. To taste the heavenly gift is to participate in the Eucharist.

3. Being a partaker in the Holy Spirit is to be Chrismated and receive the gift of the Holy Spirit

Those are the three steps in becoming "born again" so there is no doubt the writer is describing just that. As to whether you yourself have been "born again" I do not know. But we have to ask, how can a person truly be born again in a church that teaches its members that it is impossible to apostacize when the bible so clearly teaches that one can?

The answer to your question, as I said before, yes, there is hope. The Church long ago decided that should a person apostacize, they can be received back into the Church. You need to now decide which church you want to be received into.
 
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Dear Curtis,
Your story reminds me of Samson. He missed Gods calling for the same reason....a woman. So that he accepted as you must.

I have no experience in your choices nor have counseled anyone there. But your post reminds me of a pastor who did. He was counseling a man who had been a fruitful Christian who had at a point chosen gross sin and fell away. He had come to the pastor to repent and return.

Now this was a very wise pastor who had long since realized that claiming forgiveness is not recognized in Heaven. He did not think one can find a verse and march before the Throne saying God has to do this or that.

So the man came week after week seeking forgiveness. God did not grant it. (He did not know he was forgiven)

So the pastor wisely sought God about it and God told him the man was very sorry what his choices had done to his life and his eternal future was not looking rosy. The man was sorry about the consequences but not sorry about the sin. So God was not forgiving him as he just wanted out of the just punishment.

When the man heard this, he responded and prayed differently to which God responded and gloriously forgave and restored him.

He did not return to his sin (really bad) but is a church leader now to
this day.

Does this story ring any bells with you? ( I cannot know only offer this as an idea.)
 
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The other thing I would counsel you against is the name that scripture claim that yourself theology. We are not lawyers arguing our case based on case law or any other law. There will be those who try to do this and Jesus will say, “go away, I don’t know you.” Relationship with God is what you need, not avoiding Hell. Marrying the woman didn’t send you to hell as it’s not a sin. But sin does, as your heart tells you already.

There are many who will assure you eternal bliss but you had best stand before God now and not listen to them. They won’t decide your fate, God will. Excuses that you were deceived by wrong theology didn’t work for Eve and it won’t work for us. Seek truth not comfort cost you what it may.
 
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Can you please find out the pastor or mans name? That sounds exactly like my story
 
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