You don't need to be exhaustive. Just pick the most representative example among the 4 videos you watched, the one that raised the most amount of red flags for you, and just find one sentence or whatever that they said that made you feel uncomfortable and think 'yes, this is what I call "sensual" or "fleshy"'. For sure there had to be at least one sentence or something they said that triggered your skepticism. Just one example, nothing exhaustive, just to illustrate the point, it shouldn't take you more than a few minutes. I think it's a fair compromise.
You know, the one video that jumps out to me as the most insidiously fleshly is Paul Washer's testimony where he makes
his pursuit of God's presence the key to spiritual power and fruitfulness. Paul goes into the closet, Paul walks the wilderness for three days, behaving like a wild man, Paul went after God month after month until Paul finally got what he wanted. And now, Paul is bold, Paul knows God is real and present, etc., etc.
Everything in Paul's story is
Paul-centered. Ostensibly, its about God moving into Paul's life in a powerful way, but really, it's Paul who is the central figure in what happened; Paul's effort, Paul's pursuit of God, Paul's resolve are the important features of his story, not God. The primary message, really, of his story seemed to me to be that Paul W wants God more than any of his audience and he's proved it by his closet and wilderness episodes. Yikes!
This is how the "old man," Self, operates, orienting the work of God such that Man gets the glory, that Man is the key to his own spiritual success. What do you suppose - at least in Paul's view - would have happened to Paul if he hadn't chased after God so strenuously? It seems pretty plain to me that, as far as Paul Washer is concerned, if a man wants real spiritual power and a keen sense of God's presence, it's up to him to strain and strive to get it. And if he doesn't, then he'll be spiritually flat, weak in prayer, and spiritually dull in the pulpit.
So, I ask myself: how did Paul Washer come to faith in Christ in the first place? The Bible says all who are lost are "dead in trespasses and sin" and bound under the power of the World, the flesh and the devil (
Ephesians 2:1-3); the Bible says we all, before our conversion, were "enemies in our minds by wicked works" toward God (
Colossians 1:21); the Bible says that the unregenerate mind is a "mind of the flesh," a "carnal mind that is at enmity with God" (
Romans 8:7). Clearly, no one comes to God on their own; the lost can't initiate with God, bound as they are.
Paul Washer, then, only came to faith in Christ because
God first moved toward him, convicting Paul of his sin (
John 16:8), giving to him repentance that he might know the truth of the Gospel (
2 Timothy 2:25), drawing him to Christ (
John 6:44). Only after God had acted toward Paul was Paul able to move toward God. And all Paul had to do to be saved was to believe and receive. No holing up in a closet, no wandering the wilderness for days, no working to motivate God to act (
Ephesians 2:8-9; 2 Timothy 1:9; Titus 3:5).
When I think on all of this, I recall Paul the apostle's question to the Galatians, "Having begun by the Spirit, are you now being perfected by the flesh?" (
Galatians 3:3) This is what I heard in Paul W's story: A man being perfected, not by the Spirit, but by the flesh, by human effort, resolve, and intense emotion. Every saved person began with God
by the work of the Spirit and, as Paul the apostle explained to the Galatians, they continue under the very same spiritual dynamic in their walk with God. God saves us and
God changes us. We don't change ourselves for God; that's "being perfected by the flesh." But this is, essentially, what I heard Paul W describing: not a work of God in Paul W but a work of Paul W, twisting God's arm 'til he got from God what he wanted.
The Bible tells me, however, that the Spirit of God fills me only when I go low before him, when I die to myself (
John 12:24-25). I am nowhere in the New Testament told to do anything like what Paul W. did, but, instead, to yield to God (
Romans 6:13-22), submit to Him (
James 4:7), surrender myself as a living sacrifice to Him (
Romans 12:1), humble myself before God (
1 Peter 5:6). And when I do, the Spirit fills me with himself, with his power and a clear sense of his presence (
Romans 8:16).
I suppose Paul W may have been thinking, as he spoke, of the injunctions in Scripture to "draw near to God and He will draw near to you" (
James 4:8) and "you shall seek me and find me when you seek for me with all your heart" (
Jeremiah 29:13) But, in light of what I've explained above, whatever seeking of God we may do, it must always be enabled by the Spirit; God must be seeking us first. He won't force us to accept His salvation, of course - we aren't puppets - and so we must exert our free will toward God in faith in Christ. By this means, a person draws near to God, by faith seeking Him in the redemption of the cross, for there is no other way to God (
John 14:6; Acts 4:12). And when we do, God draws near in saving regeneration of us by His Spirit. But this is hardly the story Paul W described of
his striving to connect with God.
No believer, then, has to closet himself or wander the wild in order to have a deep, abiding experience of the God who dwells within him by His Spirit. The saved person has already drawn near to God in his conversion and now he is a temple of the living God (
1 Corinthians 6:19-20) who can be no more present in the believer than He already is.
Again, Scripture enjoins me, not to do as Paul W did, exerting
himself mightily in order to provoke God to come to him, but to get low, to decrease that God might increase, to die to Self, to its self-glorifying efforts, and to live by faith in the truth of my co-crucifixion with Christ (
Romans 6:11; Galatians 2:20; Colossians 3:3, etc.). This is God's way to being filled by the Spirit, a very different, God-centered, way than that described and urged by Paul Washer.
I hope you can see, in just discussing this one video, how much I've had to write in explanation of the problem I can observe in it. Imagine how much more I would have to write to address all of the videos I watched!