Not quite. It is only by surrendering to the Lord Himself after being broken that we are remade and given the opportunity to have life eternal with Him. We surrender to Him nothing more, nothing less.
Sealacamp
The bible and Jesus disagree with your ideology. But let's let Christ speak for Himself:
25And, behold, a certain lawyer stood up, and tempted him, saying, Master, what shall I do to inherit eternal life.
26He said unto him, What is written in the law? how readest thou?
27And he answering said, Thou shalt love the Lord thy God with all thy heart, and with all thy soul, and with all thy strength, and with all thy mind; and thy neighbour as thyself.
28And he said unto him, Thou hast answered right: this do, and thou shalt live.
Ahh...the simplicity Christ. Love, love, love! Without it, we are doomed despite man made rituals that claim to offer salvation. Love is the key to salvation. Dodge the truth as many will try, one can't claim to know God, if they don't know love. "For many will come in my name and I will say to them, I never knew you".
Truth is, it's hard to offer love, especially toward someone who has done terrible things. But I speculate, that's why it's such a big deal to Christ, because it is the ultimate denial of ones own fleshy feelings and desires. Love in itself IS obedience to God and why if you follow these two commands, you shall live. You can add anything to this equation you like, but without love, it's all for nothing. Or, just call Jesus a liar and we can agree to disagree and move on. Either case, I stand on the words of Christ.