I find that the best form of home church is that which is put forth in Scripture and practiced throughout the NT. Not having one leader, but rotating homes and those who lead on a regular weekly basis, seems one of the best ways to encourage growth and development within the Body of Christ. I Cor 14:26 states, "What should you do then, brothers and sisters? When you come together, each one has a song, has a lesson, has a revelation, has a tongue, has an interpretation. Let all these things be done for the strengthening of the church." In another verse, Heb 5:14, we learn that spiritual maturity or spiritual 'fine tuning' comes by reason of use--you know, through exercise. This principle mirrors the natural laws God established: you get better and stronger as you walk out / exercise your faith: "But solid food is for the [spiritually] mature, whose senses are trained by practice to distinguish between what is morally good and
what is evil." So if anyone wonders WHY the Western church is sooo weak and immature, it's because the man-made "church" tradition we have placed ourselves in, pretty much guarantees we do not become spiritually mature. God will use whatever room we give Him to work in our lives, but the simple fact is we often cannot establish the kinds of close relationships which ensure growth, challenge us to walk out our faith in a more perfect manner, or become stronger in the gifts we've been given (very few in any "traditional" church meeting are the ones teaching, singing hymns, giving a tongue or interpretation, etc.). Fortunately, the Lord is gracious and will still work in us to the extent we allow, even if it's within a man-made, cultural tradition like the typical American or even European church. But more to the point: why not use the blueprint for fellowship/ekklesia God has given us in Scripture, instead? It's the reason the church grew so rapidly in the early decades and centuries: from fewer than 300 disciples to a large chunk of the roman Empire by the year 313 AD. The early church involved purposeful gathering, prayer, fellowship, food, helping with one another's needs (as the Lord leads and as we are able), and allowing the Spirit to flow through us to others. Imagine a time when not only the pastor is Spirit-filled, but every believer in Christ is filled and fit for the spiritual level they are at--all paying attention to one another and the Spirit, all united in spirit and purpose. This is possible when we let go of our own expectations for fellowship and follow after Him, by His Spirit, according to His Word and the example He put forth in the Scriptures by the early apostles and disciples. Anyway, good question. If you have anymore questions, feel free to email or ask me here, or visit the website I'm putting together to encourage the growth of independent house churches and home church networks around the world:
Home - House Church Me It's in it's very early stages, with the aim to provide resources for home churches, feature various house church networks around the globe, help people find a house church, and perhaps in the future to provide a place to communicate with one another.