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Homosexuality: Wrong How?

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http://www.narth.com/docs/satinovr.html

This article and subsequent interview express something I have been straining to find reference to for quite some time regarding the subject of homosexuality. The argument for tolerance appears to be a combination of claims that one cannot help ones desires, that desires are themselves intrinsically good, that any possible repurcussions of any given activity are not moral, but simply cicumstantial and not worthy of consideration, and finally that people just in general have a right to do as they please.

One can see the obvious comparisons to this sort of mindset and the supposedly unhealthy state of antisocial personality disorder - colloquially, sociopathic behavior. Yet the one is conserdered an illness and the other is not.

http://www.medterms.com/script/main/art.asp?articlekey=39219
"Antisocial personality disorder: A pervasive pattern of disregard for and violation of the rights of others and inability or unwillingness to conform to what are considered to be the norms of society"

Inevitably, someone will accuse me of trying to insinuate that homosexuality is some expression of sociopathic behavior. That is not at all my point. My point is, if you read the first article referenced at the top of this OP, you will find that the entire scope of psychological endeavor suffers from the same problem: it is all a matter more or less of social acceptance or lack thereof.

From the article -
"Q: Should the American Psychiatric Association have de-pathologized homosexuality?

A: In some ways I think the psychiatric establishment was right--homosexuality is not a disease the way that, say, pneumonia or cancer or schizophrenia are diseases. Homosexuality makes a certain kind of sense as an understandable adaptation to some types of life circumstances. If you grow up in a Cosa Nostra family, it makes sense to be a sociopath. By the same token, it's profoundly confusing to label the sociopathic responses, of, say, war orphans as "disordered" when a war orphan must become a sociopath in order to survive; if he fails to, he may die. So, under the circumstances of war, which response is "healthier"--that is to say, "adaptive"?

Homosexuality, too, is a method of adapting to adverse circumstances. But like sociopathy, it exacts a cost in terms of constrictions in relationships."

My favorite quote from the whole article: "Intellectuals, I've come to believe, are definitely creatures of fashion, and much less leaders than they are followers."

The bottom line is the entire subject desperately needs further inquiry, and yet it has come to the forefront of political discourse now and is being rushed along pell mell with no thought as to all the possible damage.

How do you define what is damaging enough to society to legitimate a law? If we can outlaw smoking in privately owned institutions like resteraunts, what civil rights are there at all? If everyone is a victim, how do we decide who to protect anymore?
 
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Homosexuality is not a disease. It is not a personality disorder. It is not a genetic disorder. Genetics can make a person more prone to something but they do not make the person.

There is nothing wrong with homosexuality. There is something wrong with camps that force people to be something that they are not. Even after their brainwashed they are still going against their core feelings, such unhappy people.

Its is only because of society that people are straight. And don't tell me that there is not homosexuality in animals, because I have seen photographic evidence that deer do have threesomes.
 
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Shane Roach said:
http://www.narth.com/docs/satinovr.htmlOne can see the obvious comparisons to this sort of mindset and the supposedly unhealthy state of antisocial personality disorder - colloquially, sociopathic behavior. Yet the one is conserdered an illness and the other is not.

Antisocial personality disorders can mean danger to innocent people. Homosexuality (unless it involves rape etc.) is not a danger.

Is that enough of a difference? :D
 
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mld3three said:
Homosexuality is not a disease. It is not a personality disorder. It is not a genetic disorder. Genetics can make a person more prone to something but they do not make the person.


There is nothing wrong with homosexuality.
Well according to the Bible there is plenty wrong with it. It also spreads AIDS and other diseases, not to mention all the other negative health effects. My evidence is the following article from FRC:

http://www.frc.org/get.cfm?i=IS01B1


There is something wrong with camps that force people to be something that they are not. Even after their brainwashed they are still going against their core feelings, such unhappy people.

So then I guess we should also stop trying to help alcoholics, drug addicts, and obese people change their ways. After all it would be going against their core feelings, and it's not something they can help.


Its is only because of society that people are straight. And don't tell me that there is not homosexuality in animals, because I have seen photographic evidence that deer do have threesomes.
Well if animals do it then it MUST be okay!
 
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Shane Roach said:
The argument for tolerance appears to be a combination of claims that one cannot help ones desires, that desires are themselves intrinsically good, that any possible repurcussions of any given activity are not moral, but simply cicumstantial and not worthy of consideration
I've never heard anyone make this argument. Particularly the "desires are themselves intrinsically good" bit.

Shane Roach said:
and finally that people just in general have a right to do as they please.
They do, unless their actions harm another.

Shane Roach said:
How do you define what is damaging enough to society to legitimate a law? If we can outlaw smoking in privately owned institutions like resteraunts, what civil rights are there at all? If everyone is a victim, how do we decide who to protect anymore?
First of all you have to show that the act is damaging to society at ALL.
 
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Anduril said:
Well according to the Bible there is plenty wrong with it.
Great, except what the bible says is religion; we are a secular society. "Because my god says it's bad" is not a valid reason to legislate against something.

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It also spreads AIDS and other diseases
Umm...LIFE spreads AIDS and other diseases.

You DO know that the fastest growing category of AIDS sufferers is heterosexual women, don't you?

Anduril said:
not to mention all the other negative health effects.
WHAT "other negative health effects"? And if you can actually provide some...so what? Do we legislate against any other activity because it's a high-risk activity for the participants? Should we make sky diving and motor racing illegal?

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So then I guess we should also stop trying to help alcoholics, drug addicts, and obese people change their ways. After all it would be going against their core feelings, and it's not something they can help.
Except that all of the things you cite are either diseases or harmful to their health. Homosexuality isn't either.

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Well if animals do it then it MUST be okay!
No, if animals do it it must be NATURAL. That says nothing about whether or not it's good or bad, just demonstrates that the frequent line "it's unnatural!" is so much rubbish.
 
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Shane Roach said:
http://www.narth.com/docs/satinovr.html

This article and subsequent interview express something I have been straining to find reference to for quite some time regarding the subject of homosexuality. The argument for tolerance appears to be a combination of claims that one cannot help ones desires, that desires are themselves intrinsically good, that any possible repurcussions of any given activity are not moral, but simply cicumstantial and not worthy of consideration, and finally that people just in general have a right to do as they please.

One can see the obvious comparisons to this sort of mindset and the supposedly unhealthy state of antisocial personality disorder - colloquially, sociopathic behavior. Yet the one is conserdered an illness and the other is not.

http://www.medterms.com/script/main/art.asp?articlekey=39219
"Antisocial personality disorder: A pervasive pattern of disregard for and violation of the rights of others and inability or unwillingness to conform to what are considered to be the norms of society"

Inevitably, someone will accuse me of trying to insinuate that homosexuality is some expression of sociopathic behavior. That is not at all my point. My point is, if you read the first article referenced at the top of this OP, you will find that the entire scope of psychological endeavor suffers from the same problem: it is all a matter more or less of social acceptance or lack thereof.

From the article -
"Q: Should the American Psychiatric Association have de-pathologized homosexuality?

A: In some ways I think the psychiatric establishment was right--homosexuality is not a disease the way that, say, pneumonia or cancer or schizophrenia are diseases. Homosexuality makes a certain kind of sense as an understandable adaptation to some types of life circumstances. If you grow up in a Cosa Nostra family, it makes sense to be a sociopath. By the same token, it's profoundly confusing to label the sociopathic responses, of, say, war orphans as "disordered" when a war orphan must become a sociopath in order to survive; if he fails to, he may die. So, under the circumstances of war, which response is "healthier"--that is to say, "adaptive"?

Homosexuality, too, is a method of adapting to adverse circumstances. But like sociopathy, it exacts a cost in terms of constrictions in relationships."

My favorite quote from the whole article: "Intellectuals, I've come to believe, are definitely creatures of fashion, and much less leaders than they are followers."

The bottom line is the entire subject desperately needs further inquiry, and yet it has come to the forefront of political discourse now and is being rushed along pell mell with no thought as to all the possible damage.

How do you define what is damaging enough to society to legitimate a law? If we can outlaw smoking in privately owned institutions like resteraunts, what civil rights are there at all? If everyone is a victim, how do we decide who to protect anymore?


If homosexuality was a disease, wouldn't we have to assume that heterosexuality is a disease?

Couldn't the argument be made that the same thing that gives a person an affinity toward the same sex may also give people an affinity toward the opposite sex?
 
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Zaac said:
If homosexuality was a disease, wouldn't we have to assume that heterosexuality is a disease?

Couldn't the argument be made that the same thing that gives a person an affinity toward the same sex may also give people an affinity toward the opposite sex?

I believe the article stated that it isn't a disease, but rather a mental/social/behavior disorder.
I would say that those that are heterosexual and do not have proper boundaries or have deviant sexual behavior would likewise fall in that catagory. I have no problem including all deviant behavior - simply because one claims heterosexual does not make it right. :|
 
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ChristianCenturion said:
I believe the article stated that it isn't a disease, but rather a mental/social/behavior disorder.

Ahhhh. :)

I would say that those that are heterosexual and do not have proper boundaries or have deviant sexual behavior would likewise fall in that catagory. I have no problem including all deviant behavior - simply because one claims heterosexual does not make it right. :|

A behavior disorder. That's kinda interesting because when you look at it, it kinda is.

A choice is made to commit certain acts, but the one who is committing the acts says that it is a natural thing for them to do. But it still isn't something which they could not refrain from doing if they chose. And yes, I would include heterosexual, unmarried sex in that deviant category too.
 
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Why do I think that homosexuality is wrong? My opinion, if this is a personal question and not why others in general think it is wrong--is that I feel it is a behavior that goes against what men and women were created for and that is for each other. I don't feel it is wrong for people to love each other; but I think sex should be between a husband and wife who love each other. This means that a lot of 'relations' that happen everyday are 'wrong.' (But I leave all this in God's hands--I don't go around throwing stones, as I have no firm ground to stand on in regards to my own past.)
 
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Rae said:
Heterosexual behavior is spreading AIDS to a great degree in Africa. I guess that means God hates heterosexuals too. ;)

Nobody that I see is stating that God hate homosexuals, so your commentary is implying something unnecessarily and is unappreciated. :(
 
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I Don't give a fig what some article states, that is another way to indoctrinate a certain mindset of the masses.

Pedophiles like what they do too, doesn't mean they should do it.

Cannibals like eating people, doesn't make it right.

Homosexuals are unnatural. regardless of their desires for obtaining equal footing with hetero's, they still have abnormal desires.

PLUS, homosexual men have shorter life spans, due to scarring tissue by 'doing something' unnatural.

Lesbians cannot do anything, without 'outside' help.

Men and women fit together, and they have the natural ability to procreate, but even without the ability, they still 'fit' and women do not scar from the act.

 
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