WatersMoon110
To See with Eyes Unclouded by Hate
- May 30, 2007
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I think they must assume that everyone is "naturally" heterosexual, and everything else must be a "choice".Is heterosexuality a choice? Most heterosexuals actually fantasize about being intimate with the same sex, but just choose to have sex with the opposite sex?
I posed this to a roomful of guys in my dorm that we saying that if people simply acknowledge the existence of homosexuals, their children would grow up thinking it was an option. I asked him if he was attracted to both, but just chose to date women. He said, "NO!!!! I only like women, dude!!!!" I said, "Ah. So, you "choice" is whether to date men who you aren't attracted to at all, or women, who you are attracted to a lot? That is you definition of a choice?"
Why is it that the same people that claim I "choose" to be homosexual won't answer to why they "chose" to be heterosexual? It usually begins with, "I didn't choose to be heterosexual..." and yet, can't make the leap.
Which is just silly, because I know I didn't choose to be bisexual. I have been as I am, finding certain males or certain females attractive. But I would think that people would make the connection that if they didn't choose to be heterosexual, most other people didn't have a choice in their sexual orientation either.
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