Homosexual Acts Committed in the Bathroom

[Zaac]

What do you guys think of this story? Is there an arbitrary line in the sand about what is moral and what is not?

http://www.startribune.com/587/story/1386023.html

 

[TheFathersDaughter]

I don't think any "acts", homosexual, heterosexual or otherwise committed in a public place is appropriate. It happens far more often with heterosexuals but no one makes a big deal out of it.

 

[Zaac]

I don't think any "acts", homosexual, heterosexual or otherwise committed in a public place is appropriate. It happens far more often with heterosexuals but no one makes a big deal out of it.

What happens far more often? Are you referring to the heterosexual sex in a public place, or are you saying that heterosexuals are having sex in bathrooms too?

 

[TheFathersDaughter]

What happens far more often? Are you referring to the heterosexual sex in a public place, or are you saying that heterosexuals are having sex in bathrooms too?

I know factually heterosexuals do it just as much as if not more. Homosexuals have never been caught having sex anywhere in my bathroom schools but we here about heterosexual couples getting suspended for it every 2 months.

 

[Zaac]

I know factually heterosexuals do it just as much as if not more.

Do what more? Have sex in public bathrooms?

Homosexuals have never been caught having sex anywhere in my bathroom schools but we here about heterosexual couples getting suspended for it every 2 months.

If you're at a college/university, there is indeed a bathroom spot on campus where gay activity is taking place.

There's one on EVERY campus. Just because they aven't been caught doesn't mean it's not going on.

 

[TheFathersDaughter]

Do what more? Have sex in public bathrooms?



If you're at a college/university, there is indeed a bathroom spot on campus where gay activity is taking place.

There's one on EVERY campus. Just because they aven't been caught doesn't mean it's not going on.

Having sex, practically having sex, things I really don't want to see.

Also, maybe at yours. I live in California and I see no such thing. My friend who just got into college last year has seen no such thing. So either promiscuous homosexuals are really intelligent, or promiscuous heterosexuals are really stupid. I highly doubt either one.

Thing is, heterosexuality is nothing to make a big deal about so it's not that it doesn't happen as often, it's just that they don't care. Or even condone it. Last year a girl was raped in a bathroom and she got a small two inch square in the newspaper.

 

[Zaac]

Having sex, practically having sex, things I really don't want to see.

If you haven't turned them in, it must not be that big an issue with you.

Also, maybe at yours. I live in California and I see no such thing. My friend who just got into college last year has seen no such thing. So either promiscuous homosexuals are really intelligent, or promiscuous heterosexuals are really stupid. I highly doubt either one.

You haven't seen your brain either. It doesn't mean it isn't there. If you're at college, there is such a spot where gay guys get together.

Thing is, heterosexuality is nothing to make a big deal about so it's not that it doesn't happen as often, it's just that they don't care. Or even condone it. Last year a girl was raped in a bathroom and she got a small two inch square in the newspaper.

There's a difference between consentual illegal sex in a public bathroom and forced sex in a public bathroom.

Both are still illegal though.

Schools stay lowkey about rape period.

 

[TheFathersDaughter]

If you haven't turned them in, it must not be that big an issue with you.



You haven't seen your brain either. It doesn't mean it isn't there. If you're at college, there is such a spot where gay guys get together.



There's a difference between consentual illegal sex in a public bathroom and forced sex in a public bathroom.

Both are still illegal though.

Schools stay lowkey about rape period.

The doctors have seen my brain. You can't say "Oh no it's there" when there is no evidence.

I could. Except in High School they don't believe anything you say. I've tried reporting such things and I'm given "we're not liable".

Indeed. But the rest of the school still knows. Not sure how word gets out when a boy and a girl do things like that but I never hear anything about two boys.

Either way, your opinion is unsupported except by one anecdotal story.

 

[HaloHope]

There's one on EVERY campus. Just because they aven't been caught doesn't mean it's not going on.

Heh I assure you that on the campus near me (my partner is a student there) the gay students just do it in their rooms beds are like.. comfortable.

Sex in public is of course wrong but its not a persons sexuality that makes it wrong. Just the fact its in public (and possibly outside the bounds of a relationship).

Forced sex is always wrong. Always.

 

[Zaac]

Heh I assure you that on the campus near me (my partner is a student there) the gay students just do it in their rooms beds are like.. comfortable.

And I can likewise assure you that there are PLENTY of them doing in that bathroom wherever it may be on campus.

Sex in public is of course wrong but its not a persons sexuality that makes it wrong. Just the fact its in public (and possibly outside the bounds of a relationship).

Why? Don't some of these folks in long term committed relationships have open relationships too? Are they acting immorally?

 

[HaloHope]

And I can likewise assure you that there are PLENTY of them doing in that bathroom wherever it may be on campus

I love the way you claim to know what people are doing. Most of my male freinds are gay, I know of none that have sex in public bathrooms.

Why? Don't some of these folks in long term committed relationships have open relationships too? Are they acting immorally?

None that I know of, but yes I do believe "open relationships" to be immoral. People should commit to an individual and try and make it work for the long term.

 

[Zaac]

I love the way you claim to know what people are doing. Most of my male freinds are gay, I know of none that have sex in public bathrooms.

How have I claimed it anymore than you have claimed what you think they are not doing?

You only know what your gay male friends choose to tell ya. Like they would tell you if they were going to a bathhouse.

None that I know of, but yes I do believe "open relationships" to be immoral. People should commit to an individual and try and make it work for the long term.

Well it's nice that you believe that but there are just as many gay folks in "long-term, committed relationships" who believe that the open -relationship is the reason they have committed and built a life together for a long time.

Why should your idea of morality be accepted? Don't they get to decide if their relationship and how it's set up is moral for them?

 

[HaloHope]

How have I claimed it anymore than you have claimed what you think they are not doing?

You only know what your gay male friends choose to tell ya. Like they would tell you if they were going to a bathhouse.

I trust my freinds

Well it's nice that you believe that but there are just as many gay folks in "long-term, committed relationships" who believe that the open -relationship is the reason they have committed and built a life together for a long time.

Why should your idea of morality be accepted? Don't they get to decide if their relationship and how it's set up is moral for them?

Of course people get to decide, which is why despite I personally believe open relationships to be immoral I would never ever protest against, campaign against, vote against or be rude too people who dont have an issue with open relationships based on those grounds.

 

[Zaac]

The doctors have seen my brain. You can't say "Oh no it's there" when there is no evidence.

Go to the Public Safety office of your campus and ask them if you want evidence. Get one of your many gay male friends to read the grafitti in the men's room and see if they will agree with you that there is not a spot.

I could. Except in High School they don't believe anything you say. I've tried reporting such things and I'm given "we're not liable".

You're in High School?

Indeed. But the rest of the school still knows. Not sure how word gets out when a boy and a girl do things like that but I never hear anything about two boys.

If you're in high school, that's a completely different dynamic than college.

Either way, your opinion is unsupported except by one anecdotal story.

It's supported by college. We all know what goes on in high school. Nobody expects gay guys to be having sex in the bathroom in high school..

It's the liberated , away from mom and dad college years where they feel free to do what they have really wanted to do.

 

[Zaac]

I trust my freinds

Trust that they are only telling you what they want you to know.

Of course people get to decide, which is why despite I personally believe open relationships to be immoral I would never ever protest against, campaign against, vote against or be rude too people who dont have an issue with open relationships based on those grounds.

My question to you is why you think it is immoral? What's the basis of your measure of immorality?

 

[dayhiker]

Thanks for posting the news report, I was wondering what exactly happened. I don't see how tapping ones foot and waving ones hand lower than the stall wall is lewd. I thought lewd meant showing ones genitles not waving your hand.

dayhiker

 

[LostUntilSaved]

I just know I'd never wave my hand at someone else or try to touch someone with my foot in the bathroom stall next to me. that's just disgusting.

 

[TheFathersDaughter]

Go to the Public Safety office of your campus and ask them if you want evidence. Get one of your many gay male friends to read the grafitti in the men's room and see if they will agree with you that there is not a spot.



You're in High School?



If you're in high school, that's a completely different dynamic than college.



It's supported by college. We all know what goes on in high school. Nobody expects gay guys to be having sex in the bathroom in high school..

It's the liberated , away from mom and dad college years where they feel free to do what they have really wanted to do.

How many 16-year-olds do you know that are in college?

My high school is actually not so different. It's specifically designed to be drastically similar to a college curriculum (slightly more High School level though) and the classes are designed as if you were taking them at a CSU. Even if what you say is fact, you're singling homosexuals out like when they do it it's some horrible thing. You can't single out what is common in ALL relationships and then just call one sort of relationship evil because of it. That's the biggest pile of nonsense I've ever heard.

 

[naotmaa]

What do you guys think of this story? Is there an arbitrary line in the sand about what is moral and what is not?

http://www.startribune.com/587/story/1386023.html

I don't think anyone should be having sex in a public bathroom, whether it is same sex or opposite sex.

I'm not sure what your point is with this post? Certainly straight people have done this too. In fact here is a story for ya:http://news.bbc.co.uk/2/hi/uk_news/england/6946063.stm

 

[eastcoast_bsc]

What do you guys think of this story? Is there an arbitrary line in the sand about what is moral and what is not?

http://www.startribune.com/587/story/1386023.html

I think the reality of this story is: That we have a Republican here that consistently voted against gay rights and gay marriage, but in reality he was a closted gay male, who chose to marry and live his life as a lie. He was thus relegated to fulfilling his emotional sexual needs in a filthy airport bathroom.