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I hope nobody gets offended by this question but the only reason I'm asking it is because it is a big issue in my Church & in our town as well.
First let me clarify that I love our hispanic brothers & sisters & do not have any problems with them at all. Infact, I'm in the process of starting to learn Spanish to help out with that part of our community.
Ok, so now the scenerio...
We have a big problem in our Church concerning behavior of the children of some of the hispanic parents. They get into Church & scream & hoot, play in the holy water, run in & out of doors & up & down the aisles between pews. Climbing pews...you name it. One was even toddling out towards a busy street.
It really is a problem.
Easter Vigil kids were running in & out of Church, some as young as 2 yrs. old. While this is happening, the parents just sit there oblivious & do nothing. They see what the kids are doing but do nothing to control them. They just go on & sit there as if they have no kids or simply do not care.
Priests have said things during Mass. Our deacon, who is hispanic has said things...still nothing.
As our deacon said, the sound of children is a good thing, music to his ears, children get fussy but this is a whole other problem.
I've also noticed this in eating establishments. Parents come in, kids scatter & just make chaos & the parents ignore it & calmly continue to eat.
I'm wondering if this may have something to do with their culture? I know deacons family is not like this but it seems most are in our area anyway.
I don't get it.
Can somebody give some insight?
First let me clarify that I love our hispanic brothers & sisters & do not have any problems with them at all. Infact, I'm in the process of starting to learn Spanish to help out with that part of our community.
Ok, so now the scenerio...
We have a big problem in our Church concerning behavior of the children of some of the hispanic parents. They get into Church & scream & hoot, play in the holy water, run in & out of doors & up & down the aisles between pews. Climbing pews...you name it. One was even toddling out towards a busy street.
It really is a problem.
Easter Vigil kids were running in & out of Church, some as young as 2 yrs. old. While this is happening, the parents just sit there oblivious & do nothing. They see what the kids are doing but do nothing to control them. They just go on & sit there as if they have no kids or simply do not care.
Priests have said things during Mass. Our deacon, who is hispanic has said things...still nothing.
As our deacon said, the sound of children is a good thing, music to his ears, children get fussy but this is a whole other problem.
I've also noticed this in eating establishments. Parents come in, kids scatter & just make chaos & the parents ignore it & calmly continue to eat.
I'm wondering if this may have something to do with their culture? I know deacons family is not like this but it seems most are in our area anyway.
I don't get it.
Can somebody give some insight?