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Saavy

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I'm so glad I am accepted here! I'm in western North Carolina and I'm a hodgepodge of Catholic, Episcopalian, and Baptist.

I believe I am saved by My Lord and Savior, Jesus Christ, I was baptized in His Name in 1974. So I mostly am a Baptist.

I know Jesus is our Savior. I'm a retired Army Captain and I saw a lot of messy wars because I was a photojournalist. I was shot in Bosnia but I made a full recovery because of our Lord's grace and was able to continue my Army career for many years after.

But I became a widow at 38 with a little daughter just entering college. My precious husband -- although his faith was strong -- became unable to weather the storm of depression and too many medications which caused him to take his life.

Many friends blamed God; I didn't. My sister blamed me for his taking his life. She's an atheist and told me, "No wonder he killed himself. He was stuck with a Bible-thumper." That's what atheists think about us.

I can't have any contact with her anymore for obvious reasons. She hurt me too much.

So now, here I am with my second husband who is awesome! When we're cleaning house, we sing "Awesome God." My daughter is now 32 and an RN in the Navy, married to a Marine lieutenant and I have a grandson!!

I'm a retired Captain, my new hubby is a retired Master Sergeant and believe it or not, we met at the VA.

I work at WalMart as a Customer Service Manager, and hubby works for a security company at a plant. We're the proud staffmembers of 8 cats and a very large dog in a cute little house. We teach people how to invest and how to live on less than their means and we also fix and build computers. It's a nice business and .... I'm the accountant danggit LOL!

Anyway, I'm glad to be here and to meet you all!

God bless you and with purrs,
Saavy:)
 

Jaelyn Liza

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Welcome to the CF! Happy to have you here. God bless you and I pray this forum will be a blessing for you. :)

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Thank you very much for sharing your beautiful story. God loves you so much!
 
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Saavy

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Thank you all so very, very much! You all are so very kind to me!

I needed to be honest about myself; I was excommunicated from the church he and I were because they said if I was a better wife he wouldn't have to resort to suicide.

I did the best I could.

Purrs and blessings,
Saavy
 
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Anyone with 8 cats gets a purrfect welcome! I only have two but they sure do bring a lot of joy into our life here at our house. Our kitty kids! So happy to see you have come aboard. Thanks for sharing your story. God bless you!
 
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Saavy

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Oh my, my! All of you are so nice! Thank you and God bless all of you! Thank you all for your blessed understanding.

It's nice to see other cat people here! I did have 5, but our neighbor's house burnt last June -- everyone got out okay -- and we rescued three little kittens out of the fire. I wasn't hurt, just my hair and clothes got burnt but we got them!

God is so good!

Purrs and blessings to all,
Saavy
 
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